Should a girl ask out a guy she’s curious about?

[Anonymous]

I was at this restaurant with my friends. They said a worker who’s a guy kept staring at me. I wasn’t paying attention because I was eating my food. They said he kept staring me acting like he want to speak. Now I keep dreaming he’s my lover in my dreams. How can I talk to him and get to know him better?

[hello123456789]

Sure, a girl can ask a guy out. He sounds like he is just really shy or nervous. Some men won't approach a girl who is surrounded by her friends.

When you see him, just politely smile and make eye contact. If you appear friendly, inviting, and feminine he might come over to talk to you.

If not, go talk to him. And let him know that you see him looking at you. Just tell him he is handsome and introduce yourself. Just make it simple. He should smile back and be a gentleman. Trade numbers.

Problem solved.

[Wise4myage]

Why not take some time to get to know the guy first, and then think about asking him out.