GUYS: Is having "a weak moment" or being tempted an excuse for u to cheat?

[Reem12345reem]

[Dan_cColt]

No, if they give an excuse, they're gaslighting you and want you to feel sympathy for betraying you. Guys wouldn't care about "weak moment" or "being tempted" if a girl was cheating (your guy included) so neither should you. Someone who truly cares for you wouldn't cheat, just think of how many moments he had in his brain to think "this is wrong" and didn't.. only thing that's weak is that guys mind and loyalty.

[Reem12345reem]

someone said " Every man has a breaking point where he'd give into temptation. Most all of us never come even close to that point.'" in the answers , is that true?

[BigDog1989]

There's NEVER an excuse for cheating, men or women

The only reason people do it, is to see if they can GET AWAY WITH IT. Like trump does with illegal things. He just does as much as he can, to see how much he can get away with, just to see

[OlderAndWiser]

People who don't want to cheat. . . don't!

[bolverk]

There is no excuse for cheating on your SO, If you are considering it have the good grace to break up with them before hand.

[gorydetails]

Every man has a breaking point where he'd give into temptation. Most all of us never come even close to that point.

[Reem12345reem]

so ur saying if u came close to that point u would still cheat?

[gorydetails]

I'm saying all men would. As Tiger Woods said, "you can only say 'no' so many times".

[Reem12345reem]

most men wouldn't agree on this

[gorydetails]

Because most men aren't Tiger Woods. Most men have to pursue women. It's easy to not cheat when you have to put effort into doing so. It's a completely different story if you are the type of guy with thousands of women throwing themselves at you.

[Reem12345reem]

not true , a lot of men cheat just bc they want to cheat altho they have to put the effort , and they don't have women throwing themselves at them

[gorydetails]

I know that. I'm saying that the men who are saying "I'd never cheat under any circumstance" aren't considering the circumstance of women throwing themselves at him"

[Reem12345reem]

so men would cheat if they were in a situation like that?

[gorydetails]

most all would.

[Reem12345reem]

so why be with men if most of them would?

[gorydetails]

Most men don't have that level of temptation, as I said. So some will cheat regardless, but many won't.

[Reem12345reem]

yeah but u said most men if they had that , they would

[gorydetails]

yes.

[Reem12345reem]

so that means most men are cheaters

[Anonymous]

Of course not. There's never an excuse for cheating.

[JackCarter]

NO... nothing justifies cheating!

[Lowiu]

No like how weak do you have to be for that

[Red_Arrow]

Nope! Not at all.

[jahaims]

Cheating isn't excusable

[Wise4myage]

No, their is never a legit reason to cheat.

[slatyb]

No, it's not.

[LiamJHayden]

Yes, it is an excuse but not a valid one.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Never ever.

[Pterodon]

Nope

[TallAnon]

Nope