Is avoiding texting a good approach or do women just move on if they see that the man is not constantly pursuing?

[KaDooKan]

I met a woman, we hit it off but she left and lives far away, I will not see her for a month

during this time I feel like its best to not text and wait for face to face conversations

I feel like I would text too much and will not have as much to conversate about

is this a good approach or do women just move on if she sees that the man is not constantly pursuing?

I also do not want to seem desperate even though I am, lol

[kylee2437]

That depends on the person. Some people appreciate check in texts, others don’t. I would ask her if you are truly interested in what she prefers

[Nikki1989]

Anyone wanting to text is a turn off. That is why I have messaging disabled on my phone. If people want to talk to me, they have to communicate properly or not at all. It weeds out the time wasters.

[lightbulb27]

talk on the phone. minimize text, set the rules while talking..

who knows...

[strateguy632]

out of sight is out of mind thought. look locally

[BadApple69]

It’s only my opinion BUT…. I wouldn’t text. I would call her. Maybe once a week to start. Short but ask about her… get her talking. Then when you find that when two people like each other they can find plenty to talk about.
Not messaging her at all to me is telling her that you are not interested.
You talked about not wanting to seem desperate…. I don’t think (if she has interest in you) that she would mind you seeming to be a bit desperate. How much distance are we talking about?
I hate to sound this way but long distant relationships have little chance of success. If you can drive to her then that’s ok. If you need to fly… maybe you both need to move on. Sorry…..

[Anemone978]

If I didn't hear from a guy in awhile I would assume he doesn't like me anymore and move on. I had a friend we used to call and text like everyday then suddenly he stopped texting me or would reply late when I would text him. So then I stopped messaging him altogether then 3 months later he came back and seemed all upset and desperate when I said I was getting back with my ex.. its like you disappeared.. why you mad?

[haiuyu]

If I were the girl, and I like you, I would expect a text from you. It really shows you are interested to me. If you don't text, I'll assume you are not that into me and is probably flirting or seeing another girl.

There is nothing wrong with texting. It's a good communication system. You want to maintain contact with the people you like.

[Anonymous]

i find it odd that at your age you are still thinking like this... if you two have actual chemistry, you won't run out of things to talk about while in person... distance needs constant communication. this girl probably thinks you don't like her now.

[Unit1]

there is one trick that might be useful to avoid reaching out and it is to determine her level of interest. If only you are the one reaching out to her and she never reaches out to you on her own, then she is not interested in you. Be done and find another girl.

[Mamaliv]

Don’t stop texting her, she will think you aren’t interested. You don’t have to do it constantly or even daily, just a simple check in or good morning from time to time. Or maybe plan a time to catch up on the phone once a week?

[juene]

It will be weird for her. Obviously you two has bonded and suddenly she'll get fewer messages from you. When she starts to feel that your connection is fading. Ofcourse she will move on.

[_SillyShoes_]

Consistency is key - if you avoid or pretend to be 'hard to get', especially on purpose, any sane woman will move on.

[juene]

100% true!

[Lokiion]

it all depends on their interests level anyways texting isn’t good calling is always better in this type of case

[Jamie05rhs]

Great question. Wide variety of opinions here.

I personally hate games, but it appears that girls do like them. So I really don't know.

[peedy]

Women will always move on first rule is do not pursue you have to corner them

[selgomezfan101]

Don’t play games it’s a turn off

[Anonymous]

Grow up you're 45 years old

[EaterPeter]

Nope

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!