After a nice dinner date, does the man now get a little something in return if you know what I mean?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Yes, he gets a little something in return.

No bro.

A total of 37 votes were cast: 20 girls and 17 guys. See detailed results

[Sasha0426]

I want a relationship. If you want me to blow you, you’re going to wait until then. If you don’t want anything serious, get the fuck out of here and quit wasting my damn time 😒

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

I thought you said you were done trying to find a relationship

[Sasha0426]

That’s because I felt like I wasn’t good enough. But, maybe there is someone who thinks I am. I’m trying to gain back that hope.

[Sasha0426]

If not, then there’s nothing I can do. I wasn’t meant to find someone and I’m ok with that.

[Lowiu]

Like he doesn't but any sexual favors with the dinner date but if it was really nice and he was really nice he might get something

[AviatorTom]

It depends on what the woman wants to do. If the date went well, a goodnight kiss is nice. If it went really well, the woman may want to show her appreciation.

[DextroShade]

This is why I wouldn't take a woman to a nice restaurant on the first date if I were single. I in 3 women polled admitted to going out on a date with a guy they had zero interest in just for a free meal. Kevin Samuels (RIP) did a video about this that was awesome:

https://youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3Dx3Xy5g_fBDc%26t%3D1915&ved=2ahUKEwiolrKSoqyAAxXTnGoFHV92DHAQqJcEKAJ6BAgZEA4&usg=AOvVaw0Qu59TTftvsIZ753YQ40j

[236color]

If you get something sexual because you spent money on a woman, you weren't on a date, you were patronizing a sex worker. That's ok, but don't act like you're owed sex unless the deal was struck before dinner. If it wasn't, you're going to have one very pissed off woman on your hands.

[OfMiceandMen]

I don't think a guy should expect anything in return.

It has always been my interpretation, that If it went well and she was a lot of fun on the date, then the time well spent during dinner date should be the only return on investment.

[richardcory]

A man should be so desirable that his date actively wants to be intimate with him (not necessarily after the first date).

Wanting sex in return for doing something implies that you think your date is a better lover than you are

[Annie_LevelUP_ADC]

No bro. We're going to need a contract for that.

If I like you and you turn me on, you could have me pay for the whole date, I don't care. Sex is on the table. It's two things that have nothing to do with each other.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Hmm…

He ain’t get anything unless I have deep feelings for him and he feels the same.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Which is not happening anytime soon.

[Fireguy17]

not a given.
just because you spend money on a woman all that gets you is a thank you.
if you want a sure thing then hire a prostitute, take her out to dinner and then you can bang her like a bass drum.

[slatyb]

What I expected was civil behavior. What I hoped for was lively conversation. If there was more, that was a pleasant surprise. In my experience, my patience was soon rewarded.

[Zatsuma]

Sure, I'll tell him he can come to my place and meet my 8..🤔 ... No wait 9 cats! 🤣

(Knowing my luck the guy likes cats 🤦🏼‍♀️)

[exitseven]

you didn;t strike me as being a crazy cat lady.😊😊😊

[exitseven]

I never expected anything but I always like surprises.

[Wonderingguyy]

If you wanna blow him, just do it. If you don't.. then don't!

[XXblack88]

Not necessarily. For me it's about how far into the relationship I am with him.

[KrakenAttackin]

You should never buy dinner for a woman you are not sleeping with.

[Anonymous]

I never did, wasn’t expecting anything either, and they never did give anything in return

[gothbxtch]

no one owes you sex