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Why do women pick men who put them through a rollercoaster of emotions on a weekly basis instead of the guy who is stable and consistent? (Page 2)
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Women love drama
it’s like crack for them
Ever heard of bad girls Club?
they put 6 to 8 women in a house with cameras , no phones and they just scream and beat the hell out of each other
LOL No I haven't seen that one
Thats all reality tv find some women any group of women in the world and record
They will end up arguing
I don't know but personally being in a relationship with one “stable and consistent” guy meant being with someone who i never felt like he really liked me enough. There was something missing and eventually I realized he was probably just settling for me. I never regretted letting that guy go. After him, i met the guy who put me through the rollercoaster of emotions.. and it was worth every tear, every heartbreak, every sadness, because it was nothing compared to how happy he made me. How hard i fell in love. Bottom line, guy “b” liked me way more than guy “a” did. Yes he’s hurt me, but he also did so much for me and loved me the way i always wanted. Id pick rollercoaster emotions over stable and consistent any time if it means i get to experience what i had with guy “b” again. I doubt id love someone like that again though, but yeah. Thats my experience, I don't know why other women pick that too.
Presumably because as it is with men, many women like the challenge of an unpredictable guy.
You mean like a cat chasing a string. Once they catch the string they leave it and go after another unpredictable string? lol
I know why they do that-because they're emotion based, not logic based. My question to them is... have any of them heard what Theroux's definition of insanity is? Because your second type of guy is ONLY a LAST OPTION after at LEAST a dozen years of them self sabotaging... and only because the hot young guys don't want them at that point. So basically until they're at least mid 30's... do they know that they literally fit the definition of insane? Because that's exactly what they do... the same type over and over and over and over and over... and swear that THIS one will be different. It's not just that they pick those guys either... they're the only ones they even show any BASIC PUBLIC COURTESY to. If actions indeed do speak louder than words-which our gender is taught early on... then the roar is deafening.
ha... it's because it aligns with their sub conscious view of themselves and their view of "love".
I know one, it's a mess... she chooses a mess over easy. it's tough fighting the sub conscious mind. Until the inner wounds are resolved, they sub conscious mind will seek out what it needs, which in essence, creates pain so that they can heal.
something like that...
It could be you fell in love with an idiot.. they lie until you love them then they start with the games and BS.. or at least that was me... but I only stayed for a year of that.. then I left, because I knew he didn't love me even though he constantly lied that he did... His actions proved his words meant nothing.
Women often repeat what they experience in their homes of origin. If a woman doesn't have a loving, stable father who values and supports her at home, as well as supports and values her mother, she may learn men are unreliable and that drama between men and women is the norm.
They don't realize what's going on, they're acting in response to their personal insecurities/emotional issues, they're dramatic people in general, etc. I think mostly it's just that people don't really know better if that makes sense? Like, especially if the dude is like emotionally abusive, that can be really hard to identify and address. (Same answer if you reverse the genders by the way.)
I would only put up with it when it started after feeling like i loved him. Thats when i tolerated more bs. If he pulled that crap within the first few weeks or months of knowing eachother, i would’ve been bounced. But most dont show that side until anywhere from 6+ months in
Men do the same thing. What makes you think only men do this? My advice via personal experience is you may not be attracting the best person for you. It is a choice. For me, it’s best I stay away from people like this to avoid emotional trauma.
Because women love the drama. They will deny it and say otherwise but their minds say otherwise. Women are full of drama themselves so when a man comes with drama, it just makes her more interested because she's found a man who can handle her and challenge her at her own bullshit. She'll cry and bitch about this guy but deep down still get turned on by him
stable and consistent is not interesting to women up until they decide they want to get married and have a stable serious relationship. When they're young and want to have fun they do not find them attractive. They don't want to settle (as majority of guys).
Though when you want something serious trying to find a stable and consistent guys is quite a challenge.
Exactly. Its the more mature women that want stable and consistent
Possibly because that is the environment that they were raised in so it seems normal to them.
The other reason is because deep down inside they don't think that they deserve anything good happening to them, so they seek out that type of behavior patterns.
That way it all feels right.
Because that´s the guys they are attracted to. The guys that are mentally stable either are taken or don´t seem interested in a relationship with them.
I see so many women I know make the same mistakes. I have done it in the past but learned my lessons.
So you're saying there are no women in healthy and stable relationships and that they all have emotional traumas?
Women will choose the greatest scumbags in history as long as they make all the moves. If comfortable they can't resist it. If a stranger or scared they will resist but otherwise it doesn't matter.
Consider the 2 things that make a woman unhappy are as follows:
1) Getting what she wants.
2) Not getting what she wants.
Thus in order to have some semblance of happiness a man needs to give her a ride that has the illusion of no beginning and no end.
Typically there's unsolved trauma usually from childhood where these type of women feel attracted to hurt and pain and negativity in their lives.
They need emotional help to get healing from their past hurts to realize that such negativity isn't healthy.
feelings, emotions and instincts > intelligence, logic and rationale