Do you approach men/women or do they approach you?

[Anonymous]

I approach

They approach

[Anonymous]

Mostly men, approached me. Some I’ve accepted and some I’ve rejected.

I've also approached. Some have rejected me and lowkey hinted that I’m ugly to them. And others have accepted me.

It is what it is. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But Im not gonna miss out on possible romances. And if it means getting a little hurt and rejected and turned down by some imbeciles. Then so be it. The idea is having the guts to do it in the first place.

But yes, men have approached me more. Due to the fact that I’m a female.

When I was obese, I was approached by old men. Men in their mid 30’s or late 30’s or 40+. I was also approached by black dudes. The ones who would turn me down are men my age and my race.
When I lost all the weight. That’s when my male counterpart would approach me. When normal dudes, and hot dudes would approach me.

Never stop working on yourself 🫵

[DizzyDesii]

I don’t mind both but I have been approached by more than what I’ve approached. I’d say its about 60-40. In high school i was much shyer so it was probably 80-20 but i stepped up a bit

[Anonymous]

I don't approach. For some reason, Black, Arab, Asian and Latina have an easy time conversing with me, interjecting themselves into my conversations and us freely being expressive, but White American women just stare at me with literal paranoia, they don't even speak. The way I dress doesn't match the way I speak or my life experiences globally. I've been told that by both genders. I dress like someone off New York Undercover from the 90's, but don't speak ebonics or use drugs. All women that are not White American seem to like that, but White women are totally confused and off put by it.

[Asker]

Are you white

[Opinion Owner]

I'm lighter skinned, but have a semi afro when my hair grows out. My mother's Arab, father Italian. On the East Coast I get mistook for Puerto Rican, on the West Coast they think Chicano. In Middle America they just stare at me, because it's mostly just White or Black so they don't have a clue.

[bradybreaker]

Two months ago on a city (Windsor, Ont., Can.) bus, I struck up a generic converation with an attractive lady in her early fifties who mentioned that she had a boyfriend and was attempting to dissuade an acquaintance's romantic attentions, but said that if she didn't have a boyfriend, she'd become my girlfriend.(I turned 70 22 days ago.) Throughout my life, chicks (white ones, not black ones though I'm black) have approached me and still do beginning my septuagenarian years.

[Sonorous]

Not a lot of people approach me & maybe that's because I'm rarely alone. But the only times people usually approach me is to ask if I have any money or if I can get something that's in a high place for them. 🤣

[Billlewis]

I usually meet them through the personals, but if I see a really beautiful woman out in public, I'll usually ask her if I can buy her a drink, if I'm at a club, etc.

[NobodyXox]

I do approach women but I haven't got much luck. All the women I have approached so far are heterosexual. I need to work ok my gayradar 😂

[Kaamraj]

I live in a 3rd world country and I am a man with some means, I let women approach me for favors and make it very clear what I want in return.

[SolitarySolace]

I don’t approach women because the last time I did I had to take her to court to drop an ex parte PPO. I now hold too much resentment for women to ever have a relationship

[CuriousMufuxka]

I've usually approached. In my career of dating or whatever the fuck, I have found the women that approached me almost nothing but trouble. Almost simply because a little fun was had before drama came my way.

[Nikki1989]

I am married, so I don't approach anyone, but men still regularly approach me.

[Anonymous]

if we're talking about relationships, i approached my partner in the beginning

as for anyone else, i want them to leave me alone lol

[clampfan101]

I’m shy, so basically neither…
I’m trying to improve, though.

[msc545]

I don't approach anyone and nobody approachs me.

[Darkest-Knight]

Neither. I've never been approached, and I no longer approach.

[Anonymous]

I very seldom approach. More approach me then I them.

[Anonymous]

Please women will never approach a guy and I don't see that ever changing unfortunately

[Anonymous]

guys have to approach women, women wait for the guy to approach them

[Mamaliv]

Depends on if I’m drinking

[Yannishka]

They approach me. I approach who I like.

[SxcSierraa]

I'm the one who usually gets approached

[Fuentes]

Women approach me

[Jltakk]

I don't approach anymore.

[Jmmmfi4]

Literally neither

[DarkWinterNights]

Neither?

[Alex-Snow]

A bit of both for me

[magiusX26]

neither

[peedy]

Niether

[Anonymous]

Neither.

[Anonymous]

Both