Boyfriend holds onto fights for weeks , is this normal?

[Anonymous]

We will talk about a fight at length , don’t come to any resolution and he stays angry for weeks. Wants me to make it up to him which is impossible because he doesn’t like anything I do or buy him. At this point I will try to ignore the fact he’s angry and get back to normal life with him.

But he will keep bringing it up , rehashing it with no solutions. He will get angry all over again over the same fight after bringing it up and i tell him I don’t want to talk about it but it makes no difference. I don’t know what to do in these situations

[DaveJord]

No it sounds like toxic level of manipulation. I just don't tolerate it honestly. I have been dating hard for three years and I can't find a descent woman, that are not head cases. So, posts like these pisses me off. Because here is this jackass of a guy and you are still dating him. Where guys like me seem to have no chance other than a few weeks of fling time with woman then it's done before it even gets started.

[Anonymous]

You’ve asked this so many times, I don’t see how on earth you can stay with a man who does this to you. We all give you ample advice, plenty have said to leave him, and you refuse so what else do you want? We have no control over his behavior, and clearly you have no influence on it. I feel like there’s zero reward at this point and you’re wasting your time. I will tell you this again next time you post it and maybe at some point you will actually listen.

[provokeesmokee]

No. He has unhealthy attitudes around conflict.

Normal, healthy folk will resolve these issues and move on.

He needs therapy. And possibly, you need a new boyfriend.

[exitseven]

I don't know if it is normal. I usually get over things pretty quick but everybody is different.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[jahaims]

Of course he doesn't get over it of there is no resolution. You both sound like you are immature with communication. He sounds like a tool tbh

[Anonymous]

My experience is that guys tend not to act like this. Sounds more like a woman tbh.

[FunkyMonkee]

Girls hold onto them for DECADES!!!

[Anonymous]

Find a new guy

[Opinion Owner]

didn't you ask this question already? A bunch of people already told you to dump him. Take the advice.

[Opinion Owner]

Unless you're one of those trolls who forever reason likes to spam the same question, over and over again. In that case, carry on.

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever reason