Because modern men can get sex using dating/hookup apps without having to waste time and money. Basically there are enough broken sluts out there that have sex to get attention and try and fill in their empty hearts. Why would a man want to risk giving someone half his shit away when he can get the same things without the risk.
Hmm I know you already ruled it out but I can only speak from my experience. I found my guy on POF 8 years ago, we both weren’t sure what we were looking for at the time, but over 8 years our relationship has grown into something strong and beautiful. I definitely would have recommended that 8 years ago but now dating sites have completely changed
Not all men avoid and run away from relationships but if you want one badly I'd say you can always make the first move, but I'd say avoid dating apps, they seem like they are full of bad material
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But all women say men chase her n no men chase me I’ll be 26 . 26 n never had a guy hold my hand or take couple pic with me or go to a family party with me.
Mmm well I meet men at my job only. There’s a lot of men at job my age 18-30. The men at stores don’t approach me at all everyone has their own life so stores aren’t place to get a boyfriend.
You’re looking in the wrong place. There are those guys. I’m surrounded by them.
Seriously, certain types of dudes congregate in certain areas. I couldn’t really tell you where, as I’ve been married 15 years. But a bookish worm who will worship you the rest of your life? Try Barnes and Noble fantasy section.
I think this is an issue some of us are currently dealing with. In this age and time, we have less of trust and more of baggage. So take time to develop yourself more, spend time with friends and be positive. And sometime true love might be closer than we think
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Well it feel like only I am dealing with it as everyone in my family and life are all married engaged or have a boyfriend and I’m only Person alone.
To be honest they have to hope or pray for a guy that´s ready to be a boyfriend.
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9 mo
They want my money by buying them things and I'm not made of gold nor am i a fool.
Some girls make it seem like men have to buy them and pay for them in order to impress them and get a relationship. Like their love has a hidden price tag. That is utterly degrading to me.
If you say that men don't want relationships then how come your friends or people you know are in a relationship you say? Unless they are all lesbians because apparently its just men who dont want relationships?
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I neevr in my life have encountered a guy that says he wants a girlfriend or relationship. Or a guy that likes me back. Since age 15 to now 25 going on to 26 I neevr had a serious relationship. No guy I like likes me back never
You can thank the feminists for that. They are the ones screechung how men are trash, how women dont need men because you're all so strong and independent. Yoz can also thank your government that backs all this up.
married? that proved men do want relationships and made relationships.
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Most guys do want relationships in our 20’s, but are ignored because we don’t have much of value to offer. As guys get older we tend to get set in our ways and less interested in actually settling down.
I want a girl, I want a relationship, but, i dont want marriage or kids
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Marriage and committed relationships are not appealing to today's men for a variety of reasons, and that is a condition that has been ceated by today's women.
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Because modern men can get sex using dating/hookup apps without having to waste time and money. Basically there are enough broken sluts out there that have sex to get attention and try and fill in their empty hearts. Why would a man want to risk giving someone half his shit away when he can get the same things without the risk.
Hmm I know you already ruled it out but I can only speak from my experience. I found my guy on POF 8 years ago, we both weren’t sure what we were looking for at the time, but over 8 years our relationship has grown into something strong and beautiful. I definitely would have recommended that 8 years ago but now dating sites have completely changed
Not all men avoid and run away from relationships but if you want one badly I'd say you can always make the first move, but I'd say avoid dating apps, they seem like they are full of bad material
But all women say men chase her n no men chase me I’ll be 26 . 26 n never had a guy hold my hand or take couple pic with me or go to a family party with me.
My mom n dad never met a boyfriend either from me
What type of men are you involving yourself with tho? Where do you meet them?
I’ve never never in my life encountered men that say they want girlfriend
Well it's clearly gotta be the type of men you are chasing if your friends managed to find guys
Mmm well I meet men at my job only. There’s a lot of men at job my age 18-30. The men at stores don’t approach me at all everyone has their own life so stores aren’t place to get a boyfriend.
I'm going to assume you are avoiding churches? Churches will probably have a lot of people seeking even marriage so just an idea anon
You’re looking in the wrong place. There are those guys. I’m surrounded by them.
Seriously, certain types of dudes congregate in certain areas. I couldn’t really tell you where, as I’ve been married 15 years. But a bookish worm who will worship you the rest of your life? Try Barnes and Noble fantasy section.
I think this is an issue some of us are currently dealing with. In this age and time, we have less of trust and more of baggage. So take time to develop yourself more, spend time with friends and be positive. And sometime true love might be closer than we think
Well it feel like only I am dealing with it as everyone in my family and life are all married engaged or have a boyfriend and I’m only Person alone.
I'm 29 and the last serious relationship I had was when I was 22 and that was it. I know how hard it feels when we look around and feel left out.
Thank you for understanding me. 😔
To be honest they have to hope or pray for a guy that´s ready to be a boyfriend.
They want my money by buying them things and I'm not made of gold nor am i a fool.
Some girls make it seem like men have to buy them and pay for them in order to impress them and get a relationship. Like their love has a hidden price tag. That is utterly degrading to me.
If you say that men don't want relationships then how come your friends or people you know are in a relationship you say? Unless they are all lesbians because apparently its just men who dont want relationships?
I neevr in my life have encountered a guy that says he wants a girlfriend or relationship. Or a guy that likes me back. Since age 15 to now 25 going on to 26 I neevr had a serious relationship. No guy I like likes me back never
And I see girls since age 15,16,17,18,19,20,21,22,23,24,35,30 they get all men to be her boyfriend fast many men to be her boyfriend
Im going to stop liking guys and just continue alone til I’m old. No partner exist for me. 😞
What’s the point to like a guy if he won’t like me back, I can’t stop crying now.
I don't know y no one see I’m a nice women loyal loving 😞 no one see my heart full of love. No one give me a chance
Maybe to you but you have encountered your friends having a relationship with a guy. You are projecting your own issues to everyone else
No guy want relationship with me 😓
*Hugs*
It's weird because I, along with many other guys, have been wondering the same about women.
It seems like no one wants relationships anymore. Everyone is too scared of being hurt.
How is it possible that all single men never want a relationship?
I’ve been rejected my entire life by men
Literally just message me, I am single and available. I can commit if we match well.
There, you have an offer.
Go get her, Jux!
@Avicenna haha I do try xD
You can thank the feminists for that. They are the ones screechung how men are trash, how women dont need men because you're all so strong and independent. Yoz can also thank your government that backs all this up.
I'd LOVE to have a girlfriend!! It's been 22 years since I had one! 27 since I had a loyal one!!
married? that proved men do want relationships and made relationships.
Most guys do want relationships in our 20’s, but are ignored because we don’t have much of value to offer. As guys get older we tend to get set in our ways and less interested in actually settling down.
We do want to date beautiful women, but we know we're not worthy of any of them.
It's probably the same answer to the question how do single men get a girlfriend if single women aren't interested.
The juice is simply not worth the squeeze. As long as women continue to have high body counts, less men will take them seriously.
I want a girl, I want a relationship, but, i dont want marriage or kids
Marriage and committed relationships are not appealing to today's men for a variety of reasons, and that is a condition that has been ceated by today's women.