Got an insta dm saying I want to f the shit out of you respectfully? is this a test from my boyfriend or my ex?

[kareenakapur]

it looks like could be a fake account. could it be a test/? I don't know why it sounds like the way my boyfriend types. or am I going crazy

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You can consider it a test or not, either way it just sounds like your typical horny guy online shit. I wouldn't bother with it.

[kareenakapur]

ok wasn't sure. I get weird dm's but not like literal I want to fuck the shit out of you, respectfully and then the emojis they used were the same ones my boyfriend uses. my boyfriend I love him we just started dating he's hella insecure and I feel like trying to figure out my motives with him and test me just bc he's been hella hurt in the past :( I dont mind im a good person my motives are pure I will pass the tests but I don't know if im just going crazy or if this is a test by him

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I doubt confronting him would yield any results. If you’re confident it’s your boyfriend then refuse it to make him feel better

[kareenakapur]

I did I blocked him. even if it wasn't my boyfriend I would've blocked

[HelpfulWoman]

Honestly, ask him. His answer will give you insight. If it was, run far from that red flag.

[kareenakapur]

but I also feel like a red flag for thinking it could be him lol

[HelpfulWoman]

well just bring it up in a non accusatory way.
"oh my gosh, did i tell you about this weirdo who messaged me"

[kareenakapur]

I just blocked the account and then unblocked and now it doesn't exist. weird

[kareenakapur]

maybe they blocked back

[Billlewis]

Wait and see if he sends you another message, then you may be able to know if it's him or not.

[kareenakapur]

I blocked it lol I know my boyfriend would want me to do that

[Billlewis]

Good for you. Guys shouldn't send crude, vulgar messages like that, unless they know you'll enjoy them.

[kareenakapur]

exactly lol like what kinda pickup line is that. like yes I love being told they will fuck the shit out of me. (by my boyfriend) but like why isnta guy got to start out with that huh. like what would I even respond to that w

[bananathunder]

just delete it if you don't know them