Married woman desperate to get physical?

[Anonymous]

She's my neighbor
So I am 26 and she's a drop dead gorgeous 40 year old and married to a much older guy
We got close as neighbors and became very good friends and I never saw anything beyond normal friendship since she is married
So we often use to spent time together, hug etc etc in a friendly manner
So 2 days ago she just got me off guard by coming to my home and after a casual hug she went it for a kiss
I covered her mouth and then she asked me sit and she sat near me and started getting emotional
She said her husband never loved her and he just once or twice a week bangs her from behind , comes and goes to sleep
So she wanted to quench the " thirst" for love
Now, I would have absolutely loved to get close with her more than anything else, if she was not married.
And no, she is not ready to leave the guy either
So probably I should just leave? ( Cause I can't probably say no to her face)

[DaveJord]

Dude your 26 and she is 40... who the fuck do you think you are to deny this woman 15 to 30 minutes of joy in an ohterwise joyless life. I mean seriously, this woman is putting her self at your feet. Man the fuck up man! ;)

[Asker]

Man I exactly know how to make love with her and give her best moments of her life...
She even said her fantasies to me once which I would love to do to her!
Only thing that stops me is that it's a married woman. 😞

[jahaims]

You don't know anything about being a man if you think it involves being part of an affair.

[DaveJord]

Well as a MAN @jahaims, let me tell this asker this, I was in a marriage for 22 years and I never cheated on her. It was toxic and devoid love for long time. I could have cheated but I never did, but after I divorced I can to this conclusion... she never deserved my love to begin with. She did cheat on me, and honestly, I am not even mad about it.

So, I say this to you, if not you, she will cheat with someone else eventually. She probably already has... so if she is hot and sexy just go for its man... have fun. I would.

[jahaims]

Thank you for confirming that you know nothing about being a man. 47 years old with the mentality of a boy.

[DaveJord]

@jahaims Well at least I am not insulting people... so sorry if struck some insecurity of yours. I am not judging anyone one here... glad that you feel you have the right.

[DaveJord]

This woman had aright to be happy, and to want to be happy... and if being with him is what she wants, and if he can do that still be happy with himself then go for it. he never promised this other guy anything, he swore no vows to him. She the cheater not him.

Like in my story, my ex-wife was hot. So of course, other guys would want her, but none of those other guys promised me anything... so she was the cheater not them.

[Spongebobssocks]

@jahaims true!

[Asker]

I think I am gonna listen to you Dave
Her husband does not deserve a loyal wife cause he never cares about her feelings on and off bed
All she wanted was some love and she found it in me off bed and wants it on bed too
She's sure I won't just bang her from behind and leave after I climax..
Thanks Dave

[Spongebobssocks]

And another wasted human life.. another little pussyboy its sad but am not surprized..

[DaveJord]

I been in long toxic love less marriage... so trust me it's easy to point fingers and try make these moral arguments. But I try not to judge people more harshly then needed.

[DaveJord]

Definitely though, if you do this thing treat here right man. Its supposed to be fun, and honestly, I never cheated, but in retrospect I almost regret not doing it... maybe things would have turned out better instead of a decade of wasted time with someone who didn't really love or respect you.

[slatyb]

I wouldn't get involved. I would try to help her decide to separate from her husband since she's so unhappy. If she's unwilling, then I'm done.

[Spongebobssocks]

Have human value tell her husband and go on with your life

[Asker]

Do you think her husband is a good guy and deserves a loyal and caring wife if he can't give what she wants in return and doesn't care either

[Spongebobssocks]

doesn't matter. 2 wrong doesn't make a right

[slatyb]

That is horrible advice. The husband could be violent.

[Spongebobssocks]

@slatyb you seriously believe in being a little pussyboy and cheat? Instead of having morals?

[Asker]

Do those who have no morals deserve morals?

[Spongebobssocks]

Nope I dont think they do. I'd keep my distance from them. Its not my job to kill them but if they made a law for it I wouldn't be against it

[Asker]

Cool cool

[Spongebobssocks]

👍🏻👍🏻

[slatyb]

When did I say I would have sex with her? I wouldn't get involved beyond listening.

[Spongebobssocks]

@slatyb okay good

[madhatters4]

you should not let this go any further. if she is frustrated in her marriage that is for her to work out with her partner.

[HelpfulWoman]

Yeah leave.