What do you think is the biggest reason so many women are so clueless when it comes to men?

[Anonymous]

Obviously I mean women who actually want long and lasting relationships. Not casual or just hookups.

[inhua]

girls would rather listen to feminists who give them politically correct advice rather than listen to their fathers or brothers

for a site that claims to help people with their problems, there is surprising lack of empathy in ways I couldn't comprehend and I'm often accused of lacking empathy

so many guys and girls would rather get a girl out of a good relationship just because there were a few slight exaggerated hiccups whereas guys are being shamed into accepting being stuck in an abusive relationship

[Huntingnfishin]

I think women take bad advice from supposed experts that are full of bs. But that's my opinion. Curious what women think about your question

[Asker]

Yeah that's why I asked and why I stipulated "real relationships". Because I read a lot women asking "why guy" questions and I'm just wondering what women think guys are thinking vs. What guys say they're thinking.
Maybe we can answer a lot of women question all at once.

[Billlewis]

They're not clueless, guys aren't working hard enough to get their attention.

[Asker]

Some guys aren't, not all guys. A woman can't be so unlucky as to pick EVERY lazy guy.