You can call me stupid, but ignore the fact that I really didn't know this guy as that's not the point. The weird thing is I got on Tinder and matched with this guy. Very fit and good looking (not that I'm ugly, but would definitely place this guy out of my league physically). He comes on there telling me I'm gorgeous and all that and asks if I want to hangout. I'm pretty bored on a Friday so I say I'm going to be cautious, but ok. He says he just wants to cuddle and we agree no sex.
When he comes he is very chatty (maybe from drinking with the guys) but talked a LOT about his ex which he had apparently moved here from Chicago to be with and she ended up cheating on him, making false assault claims, and they are currently both under restraining order from each other. Whatever, shit happens, we finally get on another topic.
We drank a little bit then went to bed to sleep. He kept what he said and did not try to initiate sex, but we did cuddle all night and he did tease me some just touching places. I had to work a half day today and he had the gym with a friend, so we got up at 7 something and he left around 8. He hugged me big and kissed me and asked what time I got off work that maybe we could hang out after. I explained I was going to see my mom that she was lonely when dad was out of town, but maybe Sunday night (this was Saturday morning). He said ok that should work and then went on his way.
A couple hours later at work, I go on my Snapchat only to see that he's blocked me. He also deleted me off tinder. Obviously I'm not heartbroken or anything, I'm just like wtffff just happened? Who comes over just to cuddle, asks to hang out a few hours later then just blocks you?
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Here's a couple of possibilities ranked in order of likliness
1. most super attractive people (in my experience) have loaded DMs so maybe someone better came along in that short amount of time
2. He met another girl and she physically blocked you through his phone
3. He jerked off and the post nut clarity made him regret his decision in you
He wanted sex
And u ingnored sure he found other
Ok, so even though he said no sex first and that he just wanted to cuddle, he really wanted more and I'm supposed to know that right? Just didn't know why he acted nice and interested this morning and didn't just leave last night.
Cuz he wished u give up
I did this when i didn't get sex when i visited her house... we have many options.