Is it weird to prefer body over face when dating?

[Anonymous]

Even if I don't think a woman has a very pretty face, I find myself still wanting to date her if she has a nice body.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

It’s not weird.

Just make sure you don’t make her feel that there’s something wrong with her face.

She probably already knows she’s not the prettiest girl out there.

So, instead try to like her as a whole. With her face and body.

If she is into serious relationships she’d be very upset to know you only like her for her body…

[Asker]

She does make me laugh, got a great sense of humor.

[turnpost]

To be honest though women pretty much do that all the time. The love of the body comes first then face for women who are straight.

[Minahh]

I mean its okay like a while ago in college I was thinking the same thing there was this guy with a beautiful face but he was kinda fat and then there are not so cute guys with nice figure. I don't know pretty face figure is the best ofc but if I had to choose I'd agree with you.

[loveslongnails]

It's not weird, it's normal for guys who are primarily interested in getting laid. But no matter how good the sex is with that body, you'll get bored with doing it on a regular basis if you don't like the rest of her, and then you'll dump her and most likely repeat it.

[Asker]

What if I end up liking her as a person? Would that help?

[loveslongnails]

Sure, it will help keep you there longer than if you didn't, but will it be enough to keep you there when you get tired of the sex with her? That WILL happen, because it's what brought you there to begin with. So then you're singing "2 outa 3 ain't bad"; you like the body, you've decided you like her as a person, but the face, hmm, not so much. She'll know it too, if she's a smart girl. Will it work in the long run? I don't think so, but that's just my opinion.

[Asker]

Face has always been the least important thing to me, I think it'll be enough to keep me there.

[loveslongnails]

Well if that's the case, let it roll and see what happens!

[artgorgeous]

Yes, it makes sense if you are thirsty for sex. But for the long term relationship - it won't last. You will become fed up with her pretty fast, and then ditch her. Depends on your goals.

[Asker]

What if I like her as a person too?

[artgorgeous]

Then you should't care much about her face, right? But since you asked... you do care. Maybe you are lying to yourself? Think about this again. Anyways, face can be always fixed by makeup, surgery, etc. Depends on how far you will go with her.

[Asker]

I asked because I thought this was the place to ask such questions, there aren't many men who share the same preference I do apparently.

[snowboarder720]

Nothing wrong with it but still not the right thing to fall in love with.

[Asker]

I like her personality as well.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Face is the right thing to fall in love with?

[snowboarder720]

@LaFemme it’s about the personality and qualities. Looks go away with time.

[Sonorous]

What would stand out most to me is the ratio. But I don't believe this stuff should be viewed as "weird." Subjectivity is very high when it comes to attraction. And that's okay.

[slatyb]

No. Everyone wants what they want. One of the biggest regrets of my life is refusing an offer of a third party to arrange a date with a lovely woman who had scarring rom severe acne.

[Wise4myage]

Probably for some people, but not me. I have to like a girls face, just as much as her body.

[Asker]

I just have to like her body, personally.

[Wise4myage]

I hear you.

[Asker]

I get tempted to ask someone with a nice body out even if I don't find their face pretty.

[Wise4myage]

Then go for it!

[Peter_Penetrator]

Nope. She can have a banging body and a butterface for all l care.


She has a great body, but her face…..

[ProbablyClueless]

That's not too weird, no. I personally prefer a pretty face over a nice body, but that's just my way of looking at things.

[normalice]

Weird? It's not even uncommon. We want most of our viewing time of a woman to be from behind.

[aquamarine321]

Body or face isn’t important any more only sexually, face and body don’t mean anything even that person behind that face and body will need your relationship within less than 5 years

[AaronKrieger]

No, but I wouldn't make it a habit of prioritizing a girl's body like that, since it'll probably cause you problems when her body changes at some point.

[Huntingnfishin]

Let's face it most men don't look at her face first anyway! As long as you're happy who cares what everyone thinks

[Anemone978]

I suppose that is actually normal for guys I seen a lot of my friends with girls that were almost ugly but had nice bodies but usually not for long.. then they would find pretty girls..

[turnpost]

This is also normal with women as well. Body first and then face in terms of attraction.

Usually for guys a pretty girls face and then body. Body can be fat slightly or not its more forgiving in that respect. Just how i see it

[Anemone978]

@turnpost I could never take someone for there body.. The face has to be my type first...

[turnpost]

Say that to the long line of Heightists...

[chicosuave]

yup most guy are like that and you will see a lot of the same cases. where a girl is butt ugly from the face but she is super hot. I get that a lot too.

[turnpost]

I am surprised how many women dont understand this. Women do this all time with men.

Body height first and then face and... etc

[DextroShade]

Body is more important; it doesn't matter what her face looks like if she's fat.

[exitseven]

Everyone has their preferences. If you like somebody with a nice body that is up to the individual.

[LiamJHayden]

Different strokes for different folks. She could have a great face and body, but if her personality sucks I hard pass.

[Anonymous]

So you want a butterface?

[Asker]

Yes, but I actually like her as a person too.

[Opinion Owner]

Well good luck with that.

[Asker]

I'm quite the ugly mug myself so...

[Danny_dan92]

Face is more important.




I’ll get her in shape

[Jersey2]

That looks like a guy with a boob job. Look at the wrist and hand.

[RingOfFire]

Like they always used to say, you can always bag her face while you're f'n her. 😀

[Sasha0426]

You only want her for sex

[Asker]

I could like a woman as a person while overlooking flaws.

[Sasha0426]

But, not enough to want a relationship, right?

[Asker]

Yes, enough to want a relationship.

[Sasha0426]

I’m not convinced.

[Asker]

You think men are too shallow?

[Sasha0426]

I just find your situation weird. Like, why would you want to be with a woman that you don’t find her face attractive? I would honestly would be very skeptical of a guy like that.

[Asker]

I don't know what to tell you, it just doesn't bother me or stop me from wanting a relationship.

[Sasha0426]

As long as you can SHOW her that you’re with her more than looks, awesome 👍

[sheikalana]

Not weird. It's a preference.

[EyesOfGod]

I mean some peoples stats are just lopsided.

[DizzyAster2]

You can prefer whatever you want.

[Jazzy54]

Bleh. How selfish of you. 🤮

[Wonderingguyy]

It’s not weird just personal preference

[Kelly6]

not weird

[jimmy2]

I do both o love a beautiful face and imagin a BJ

[riverrat3]

Normal