How can I stop settling for men I dont like because I have low self esteem?

[catarecute]

how can i stop setteling for man who like me just because i feel bad about myself i used to feel good about myself until some mormons insulted me and now i feel like i am ugly and that its a miracle if one man like me. how to get out of this

[Anonymous]

Don’t let the words of some fools define who you are. Ugliness is not an outer thing, and I guarantee you that you are not ugly. That mean-spiritedness that sits inside and comes out the mouth, that’s ugly. Don’t believe any of the foolish things those people say to you. You look at yourself in the mirror, look into your own lovely eyes and tell yourself that you are beautiful and worthy of love. And you tell yourself these words over and over until you believe them. And you kick those foolish, ugly people out of your life because you don’t need them.

[catarecute]

thank you, that means a lot.

[Anonymous]

Improve your self esteem

[catarecute]

thank you lol but its not that easy. but i will give it a go.

[Opinion Owner]

I never said it was easy, but it's necessary if you want a healthy relationship.

Going to the gym helped me tremendously with my self confidence/depression.

[catarecute]

i will go to the gym but i like my curvy body i dont want to look to thin. people can't accept that i am ok with looking curvy.