Was I wrong to reject her instantly because she was previously engaged?

[Anonymous]

I only want a woman without a romantic past where we can be each other's first real relationship.

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+1 y

She said, "For a Christian man, you sure pass judgement lol"

[HelpfulWoman]

It's your prerogative I guess.
Just those who want "no romantic past" tend to be more of abusive tendencies, hence targeting the less experienced.

[msc545]

Of course you were wrong. WTF difference does it make that she was once engaged? You were not around for that and it would not make a shred of difference to any reasonable man.

Congratulations on throwing away one of the few opportunities you will probably ever have for happiness because your stupid "standards" are more important to you than being happy...

She was right - you are far too judgmental indeed.

[artgorgeous]

If she was engaged once.. there is a chance she will become a "she was engaged twice".

[Anonymous]

In high school I was the same as you, I only had girlfriends without a romantic past, I only used women who had a romantic past for sex.

[Asker]

I just don't feel women who have had romantic bonds with other guys previously (especially during her youth) are worth it. I rather keep pursuing my unicorn.

[Opinion Owner]

In my case, I'm not pursuing anything, I have more important things to do, although if I have the opportunity to fuck an attractive woman I do, the bad thing is that lately I only attract women older than me, and I don't like that type of women.

[Ironic_Method]

As long as you're fine with being single forever. Do you feel there's a difference between someone who gets engaged on day one and someone who never got engaged while dating the same person for 7 years?

[Asker]

Single forever because I don't want a woman who has been previously engaged to someone else?

[Ironic_Method]

Is it just the engaged part that is your prerequisite or her having a deep attachment to someone?

[Asker]

Having a romantic bond with a guy before is the dealbreaker.

[msc545]

You are terrified of emotional intimacy. Get professional help.

[inhua]

it's your life. only you will know the answer in the end