Was I JUST REJECTED and she's no interest?

[WHYoHWHYOh]

she has bad English, we were supposed to meet on Saturday at a party... is this genuine in your opinion or an excuse.

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She works as a Cleaner*

[Assi2k]

Don’t let your pride get in your way of finding love. Love freely without need of reciprocity. That way people will see you don’t have an agenda and will love to spend time with you.


In other words, invite to spend time with you because you think it will be fun for the person NOT because you hope to gain attraction, relationship, sex or whatever.

[Anonymous]

while this may be genuine, the only way to truly know is to ask maybe like "oh what happened to your shoulder" or smth and like how did it happen and stuff. If it's fake she'll give less details compared to if its a real reason. (she'll give more details if it's real 100% because if she truly wanted to meet you then she will explain t he reason almost fully for not attending)

[WHYoHWHYOh]

I'm guessing it's either a lie or she hurt it while cleaning as she's a cleaner

[midnightmoon05]

Call her… ask how she is… communicate … since you two met before.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly!

[exitseven]

I don;t know, the English is pretty bad. I would give her one more chance to be sure.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[t-8900]

not enough conversation visible to say anything at this point

[kqueen]

Did you text back to make sure she's ok? It sounds like she genuinely had a bit of an emergency and couldn't come. Kinda self centered to assume she's making up an injury just to get out of going to a party with you.

[tatianamay]

Sorry, man. But im not sure, looks like she ain't interested

[shaysh87]

so you expect all women to be interested in you? I don’t see how this is so shocking.

[WHYoHWHYOh]

I don't see where I said all women should be interested in me 🤣🤣

[shaysh87]

So why u complaining on here?

[shaysh87]

Everyone gets rejected at some point

[Razp_Sorbet]

Who cares? If she's interested she'd let you know. If she's not then let it be.

[jewishgirlchild]

Why do you specifically say "she has bad English"? Not everyone can speak English like a native speaker, right?

[Shygirl80s]

I would find out if she was interested in spending time with you at another juncture. If she says no, then it would be time to move on

[Wiredone]

Give her the benefit of the doubt. Text her in a couple days to see how her shoulder feels

[loves2learn]

Gonna go out on a limb and say fake. Sorry.

[TrueConfection]

Have you ever met her irl?

[WHYoHWHYOh]

Yes 3 different times, 3 parties

[TrueConfection]

Ok, then give her another chance. Maybe she just didn't feel like going out.

[WHYoHWHYOh]

If she makes an effort texting me again I'll give her another chance

[Inbox]

@WHYoHWHYOh I'd give it one more go, but wait for a week because she clearly states that she was in pain. Would you go to a party when your body was in pain? If she doesn't respond, then move on.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Real

[Uptowngirl88]

Both move on

[In_Trance]

yup, move on