Why do some people say don’t date for looks?

[Anonymous]

It’s complete BS. For me, without exception, there’s no attraction when there’s no physical attraction at all. Without exception, if a woman doesn’t wear her hair the way I want it or dresses the way I want her to, it’s a complete dealbreaker and a red flag 🚩 for me.

[inhua]

it's impossible to know someone's personality before knowing their looks

if someone likes what they visually see into another person, then they would take the time, energy, resources to get to know them

this goes for both men AND women

[clampfan101]

What they mean is don’t date JUST for looks.

[Asker]

Makes sense. Looks matter to me regardless. They’re not everything.

[clampfan101]

Exactly. It’s basically “get/keep your priorities straight”, reminding you looks shouldn’t be the top one regardless of it being important. There’s a lot of important things.

[Anonymous]

Yes physical attraction does matter
But above a limit it's not good and you are an example of that 💀

[Anonymous]

Because they're ugly typically. Attractive people don't typically say this.😆