Cold approaches - Girl's opinion?

[Anonymous]

As the title says.

What do you girls think about guys who do cold approaches to eventually get dates?

It's okay for me, love to talk to people

Don't disturb me, leave me alone

[_Maya_]

Fine by me and happens to me all the time at work. Bartender here and that liquid courage I serve gets guys to say just about anything. I am in a relationship but your average guy at the bar doesn't know me and doesn't know that I am. So I get hit on quite a bit and asked out. I don't mind that they do it. I am not going to get upset at someone simply trying to get a date. That is how that works. A lot of whether it is annoying or not has to do where I am approached. Most of the time I don't care. There are certain times that I do but they are few.

[Asker]

At work is one place, and especially as a bartender.. i can imagine..

So where's those places its according to you not so appreciated?

[_Maya_]

There is really one and it is only specific to what I am doing. If I am in the middle of a hard workout don't approach me. Just not a good time all out of breath and stuff. Now if I am done working out that is another story I suppose. Really circumstantial.

[Asker]

Of course, luckely im blessed with eyes, so I usually see if someone is busy.

But as places..
Library?
Mall?
Grocery Store?
At the street?
Beach?

[_Maya_]

I look at it like this. If I am not busy doing something then a-okay with it.

[inhua]

beware of virtue signaling answers because they might say it's ok but when you actually approach them and they don't like what they see, they'll tell you to fuck off and at worst call the cops on you

[Asker]

Unsure what you mean..

If she rejects me then i just move on would not become persistent..

And why would a cop care if a girl get approached in a calm, none offencing manner?

[inhua]

if she were to call the cops on you, she won't be telling them that you approached her in a calm way

[Asker]

So she would say "that offencing smirky guy offending me and touched me and..." as she points at a calm none offencing guy?

[inhua]

you'd be lucky if the cop had any common sense and understood she wasn't being truthful

most cops are already under a lot of pressure, not only to maintain peace in their day-to-day jobs but also from defunding being pushed by BLM. last thing they need is feminism to further push for their defunding

[Asker]

So basically girls in your country can walk around and call cops on literally every guy, about whatever she please?
Thats some fucked up society..

[inhua]

not all of them will do it but they are allowed to do it without consequence. and it's basically a case of he said, she said and since most cops are men, they have a biological imperative to protect women and therefore you'll be assumed as a potential perpetrator right off the bat

[Asker]

That's so weird, nothing i can recon i my country.

And im pretty sure a cop can't do anything if a guy after walked away, calmly answers the cop he wanted to have a conversation and since she rejects him he was his way.

[inhua]

sometimes if they scream loud enough, the cops might buckle under pressure and arrest you anyway to keep the peace

[Anonymous]

just ignore the guy that said the cops will be called when you cold approach


I have cold approached before and never had the cops called on me

[LazerBean]

Nothing wrong with that.

[Anonymous]

You get to meet a MeToo firing squad