Boyfriend continues to lie?

Question

A few weeks ago, I found my boyfriend’s Tinder. He swore up and down that nothing happened, but that he had the intentions to do, but that he deleted the app. I told him to delete the account multiple times, and each time he told me that he was going to do it at that moment. It was found again today. He claims that he had to re-download it and go back into the app to delete his subscription. I confronted him about how I had asked him to delete multiple times and his response was that he deleted it. I confronted him again about not wiping it and his response this time was that he did not realize that he didn’t delete it. I told him that he made a choice not to delete it. I’m at a loss of words, but I know this is not what I want anymore. Any advice would be appreciated.

Zenpanda · Accepted Answer

You deserve so much better than this. I don't know you, I don't know him, I don't know your lives. But I do know that lying and being on a app solely created for dating is nothing but red flags.
My honest opinion is, break up and find someone who respects you enough to not pull stunts like this. I hope whatever you choose to do, you find happiness and mutual respect.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

See the issue is you women keep putting up w this shit that’s why men continue to do it. Leave. Simple as that. Don’t threaten him, so it, leave. You don’t leave he’s going to do the same thing as he’s proven 3 times already. Sure he may delete it for a few months but there’s a good chance he will do it again.

rienna888 · Accepted Answer

He’s not going to delete it because he still has it every time you asked him to. Honestly dump him he will never change, he is taking advantage of you. Don’t enable his behaviour or you will end up accepting his cheating. Find a guy with a better personality and will provide for you

Ozanne · Accepted Answer

Make a fake account on Tinder. Find him on there. Message him. See what he says to you as your fake name/profile. Once you have the proof, you can throw that in his face. Once you're satisfied that all the lies are confirmed, you can break up and move on.