Is it true that older men prefer ladylike women to the more streetwise types?

[HappyWoman34]

The majority, who are looking to settle down?

[dynamicyandere]

Oh yeah. For settling down? Definitely, you don’t want to come off as provocative.


When a girl comes off as promiscuous, it can make a lot of men automatically categorize them as someone that they’re open to having fun with, but not open to having anything serious.


At the end of the day, if they want to settle down, they’re looking for someone who can be a good wife and raise a family together with them.

You’ll want to behave and dress in a way that would help them easily see that and picture that in their mind.

[slatyb]

"Oh yeah. For settling down? Definitely, you don’t want to come off as provocative."

That's just your opinion. Plenty of men are very happy with provocative women.

[dynamicyandere]

@slatyb I’m not saying all men. I’m saying in general, men want to raise a family with women that at less promiscuous rather than more promiscuous.

Of course you have communities like swingers that don’t mind. And I’m sure that community is sizable.

But, if a woman is very promiscuous and wondering why she’s able to sleep with so many men but none of them want to marry her, it’s because that promiscuity is a major factor.

Hooking up? Ok. Dating? Ok. But marrying, settling down, and raising a family? Usually fathers want someone they can point to as a good role model for their kids.

And yes, this is my perspective and my opinion on things.

This is G@G. That’s why our answers to questions are selected by the OP to be MHO (Most Helpful Opinion) or not.

You can have your opinion and I can have mine. We both bring unique perspectives on the table.

[slatyb]

Like many men, I never particularly wanted a family, just a partner. Ideally a partner who liked sex, a lot. Such a woman would hardly be a virgin in her twenties.

[spartan55]

Depends on what you mean by streetwise.

[HappyWoman34]

Like they wear revealing clothes and behave in an openly provocative way.

[HappyWoman34]

I was trying to put it respectfully

[slatyb]

What does "ladylike" mean to you? To me, it means someone who is considerate of others.

[HappyWoman34]

Classy. Well groomed, good manners.

[slatyb]

Classy, good manners -- that means precisely "considerate of others". There is another side to that: "kind to herself".

[HappyWoman34]

As in self respect?

[HappyWoman34]

That men place the value on you that you place on yourself?

[love_conquers_lust]

Streetwise. Barf. Streetwise turned lady. Barf.

[HappyWoman34]

What do you like? What’s your type?

[love_conquers_lust]

My type? I don't think she exists or is already taken. It would be a feminine feminist. Probably on the same level of attractiveness as I am, at minimal in a healthy weight range. But to find that with someone who is also moral and intelligent... Most of the women on here that I've spoken to is probably a hard no. Many on here are damaged and promote unsavory behavior. Idiots on here think feminist means the right to act like the biggest of assholes as other womanizing men. Some of them are "educated", but they don't know how to use it or fucking think. Their god damn feelings get in the way of being equal to men. I probably need one that not only isn't afraid to argue but is also RIGHT. But if she's right, chances are, we aren't going to argue all that often. I don't give a fuck how arrogant that sounds. Too many questions on here are centered on making marriage, monogamy, and abstinence sound like dead ends. Anyone with sexual experience will tell you it really isn't that Earth shattering from person to person, it's personalities that matter. The first time I went down on a girl, her chest turned red in about 45 seconds. It really isn't that fucking hard. So, I really don't understand this shit about wanderlust coming from women and why people are so god damn fucking scared of only spending the rest of their lives with one person. They'd rather spend the end of their lives alone than settle for one. It's stupid. Those asshole fuckhead womanizers aren't fucking lying when they say the tables will turn on women in their 30s and 40s. Men fucking die at higher rates. So, I'm just trying to survive.

[HappyWoman34]

Fair enough. I agree that monogamy is good and that it can be achieved and people can be happy. That it should be supported, promoted, valued and encouraged. On the other hand, I understand the wanderlust. Many people in their youth are still figuring out who they are and what and who they want to spend the rest of their lives with and doing for work. These are big questions that can’t always be answered for certain until you’ve had life experiences to learn from.

[BourbonAndBacon]

It's true for me. My fiancé is very feminine.

[Sparkie460]

If I was looking for a new woman I'd look for a down to earth, girl next door type. She's not afraid to get her nails dirty but cleans up nicely.

[DextroShade]

Yes, why would a man want to settle down with a woman who is for the streets?

[clampfan101]

There’s a middle ground I like most. I want an intelligent lady.

[Zenpanda]

Give me a nerdy/geeky girl and I'm happy 😁

[Jerre]

That makes no difference to me.

[Jerre]

@happywoman34 Thank you for the Like

[BLP11520]

I would say that is true

[Fenerbahçem]

Maybe