My boyfriend and I are trying to wait until marriage but sometimes it gets really hard to practice abstinence. Has anyone been in a similar situation?

[Anonymous]

It gets hard especially when I’m ovulating and Im just all over him and it’s hard for him to fight me off 😂

[ohsheeT]

Try doing this with him talk to him about this

I went out with a virgin and she wanted to wait until she was married I understood that and I respected that.

I'm not a virgin and I get turned on very easily or if I start making out or start having foreplay and I told her if we start doing that then I will hold back but I need to relieve myself somehow because just just because LOL

So we talked about it some more and some more and some more and we came up with an idea that we could have foreplay we could make out and we could basically do anything to each other except for penetration

So when we would start making out and we would get each other undressed I would roll her over on top of me place her hips right on top of mine and in slow motion I would pull her forward and slide her back pull her forward and slide her back in the slowest motions

I would pull her down so she would almost be grinding on me but as I would slide her forward and back her p**** would straddle each side of my cock and then if I would pull her hair down so I could kiss her her lips her neck her breast that then would make her clit slide right on top of my cock all the way to the head of it all the way back and if you do that right I would give her the best orgasms ever she would go literally crazy on me and which I absolutely loved but why don't you try that it's not having sex in around about where you're not penetrating so you should try that there's a couple other things you can do too that's really really hot

[AviatorTom]

I understand your desire to wait for marriage to have intercourse. But what about other ways to pleasure each other, and experience intimacy? Would it be okay for you to to mutually masturbate each other, for example?

[Anonymous]

Are you both engaged? I knew people who were in a similar situation, and they moved their wedding date up. If it’s important for the both of you to wait until marriage, then the solution is to get married.

[Asker]

We’ve def talked about engagement and marriage. But we want to get married preferably after we graduate

[JoannaSmith36]

I think you want to have a baby quickly haha

[Asker]

Haha my biological urges to reproduce 😅

[Avicenna]

I have no idea how a couple could do that for more than a few months

[Asker]

It’s been a struggle 🥲🥲🥲

[JDavid25]

I feel that one.. But maybe when you are ovulating, y'all should probably be apart for a bit.. So that that temptation won't be there..

[Asker]

Haha yes I think that’s best

[JDavid25]

Yeah, even though that in itself would be a task too.. LOL..

[Asker]

Yeah it’s easier said that done 🥹 can guys tell when girls are ovulating? Sometimes I feel like he can hahah

[Truthatanycost]

The only way to do this is through God and scripture.

[Asker]

Thank you 🙏

[BCRanger10]

What are your reasons for waiting?

You might consider limiting the amount of physical interaction you have with each other, putting strict limits on when you call it a night, how much time you spend alone, and having other people around.

[Asker]

That is very solid advice 😲thank you so much. We both think a sexual relationship inside marriage is best and sacred

[BCRanger10]

I take it you two are religious? If so, what church?

[Asker]

We’re seventh day Adventists

[Luckycharms12]

Nope just done it with my girlfriend at time when I was 15 . Don't understand waiting for marriage tbh.