Is it up to the girl or the guy to decide if the guy is in her league or not?

[sage2021]

My last boyfriend thought I was out of his league, but I really liked him and wanted to get to know him. All I can say it was like pulling a giant whale out of the water, but we worked it out finally!

[AviatorTom]

Neither one. If a guy or girl asks if their crush is in their league, they will always stay in the Minors. If you like someone, let them know, regardless of who they are.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO

[eagle1951]

the girl of course

[exitseven]

I do not subscribe to the concept of leagues. Most would say that my wife is too good for me but she compares me to other guys she has known and says there is no comparison.

[serious]

Well, given the context of your question then it is the girl who decides whether the guy is out of her league or not.

If it is the opposite, then the guy decides whether the girl is out of his league or not.

[inhua]

the concept of leagues is proof there's no such thing as equality despite society constantly preaching it

[LiamJHayden]

The way the question is worded, the girl is the chooser.

[Andres77]

If someone feels like they are settling, they shoud just admit to being lazy and back out. They’ll never give the respect the other deserves

[Billlewis]

Of course it is, always.

[BLP11520]

Well yes, sounds right

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes.