When is a girl perceived as out of a guy’s league?

[Anonymous]

What would make a guy think a girl is out of his league? What are some qualities? Are there certain qualities? Do guys find some females intimidating as a result? Are “attractive” girls typically avoided by men in terms of relationships? What would it mean for a girl if mainly only guys who are creeps or are not necessarily as attractive to hit on a girl, but for the attractive/high quality guys or guys she likes to not? So many questions… not enough answers! 😆

[Scooter1836]

When she's beautiful. Beautiful women pay no attention to us 6's, 7's, or 8's. They act like they want 11's. Knowing I'm not an 11, I have no chance.

Plus, experience. All the times I have approached an attractive woman (8/9/10) She's 💯 rejected me like I was a peasant. It sucks. I feel like such a loser.

Finally, bc I make a humble living. High-maintenance ladies are needy for expensive stuff. I stand no chance to support them.

[EnnyT-S]

If a woman is out of my league, which to be fair is most of the time, I don't really feel anything other than admiration. Weirdly, I don't feel nervous around them because I know I haven't got a hope of impressing them anyway. I'd say it's almost like being around a family member who you know is attractive.

[Jazzy54]

When I was about your age, I had a crush on the popular boy in school. What made him out of my league was the fact he was popular and I wasn’t. However, as you get older, you’ll see that that stuff doesn’t even matter. 😊

[Nikki1989]

There is no such thing as leagues. That is just an excuse weak men use to avoid approaching women.

[236color]

When she's a 9 and I'm a 4. Vast mismatch in status, attractiveness, sometimes financial status. That sort of thing. This doesn't mean those relationships don't or can't happen, but it's less likely.

[Dkc123]

When she has lots options

[Asker]

What would that mean, for a female to have “lots of options?” Lots of guys friends? Or a lot of guys find her attractive?

[Dkc123]

Both. And bocz of that she will think very highly of herself.

[Asker]

Would that make her also out of his “league?” And what if she doesn’t?

[Dkc123]

She's not. But she'll think she's deserves better..
The girl who doesn't have options she'll crave for/be
happy getting whatever attention n affection she's getting.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should try approaching them.

[Asker]

How do you approach a guy you perceive as out of your league?

[Opinion Owner]

Go up and introduce yourself.

[riverrat3]

A guy with low self esteem