When is an appropriate time to ask a guy you’ve been seeing about a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I don’t want to be stuck in a long term “situationship” or casual thing. So I want to ask him what his intentions are, so I know whether I should end things or not.
*it’s only been almost 2 months since we first went on a date.

[Anonymous]

Don't ever ask him out first. Many girls do this and get rejected because guys will usually take a girl for granted if she makes a first move. A girl doesn't usually wants to be seen as less respected. So don't lose your respect on his eyes by making first move. We think that we want to look great by making the first move but unfortunately they will not take it that way. They will use it as an opportunity to hurt us, feed their ego. If you're beautiful, he might even ask you for direct physical advances and leaves you as soon as he gets them from you. Instead wait for him to make the first move. This is not known as playing games but giving him time to take responsibility to be prepared to share a life with you and only through this way he will not hurt you mostly. Even playboys will hurt girls through this way but most guys, other than playboys won't do this. Giving him time will make him evaluate if he's willing to stay with you throughout your life. So wait till he makes a first move and go on with your situationship as long as he takes a first move.

[CatVader]

2 months is a long time to just play around..
just be ready for him not wanting to commit. you may be a side chick. *shrug*

[boggboss]

Is he likely to be truthful have u spoken about the subject before are u exclusive already

[Asker]

2 weeks ago he brought up being in a relationship, and said that if that’s what I want I need to put more effort in (as in go visit him cuz we live 3 hours apart and talk to him more cuz i was kinda not texting much at first, I don’t really like to text)

[StarWarGirl]

@Asker why to invest our energy and efforts before knowing the intention. You better shouldn't blindly believe on his words instead you should ask about the potential his interest on being in relationship or not. It's not only about you but if you both are getting into relationship you both should be showing efforts. It should be from both sides.

I think you should not be having any hopes from him. I don't think he is interested. Putting such conditions he shows how much he is distant.