He invited me to a park for the first date, should I go? (Page 2)

Question

Isn't it so cringe that he invited me to a park for the first date? What should I do? Is it normal to just go for a walk in the park on a first date?

Dargil · Answer

For a first date, yes. Good place to talk and read each other.

sashasauce · Answer

Picnics in the park and stargazing are the most romantic dates in my opinion

DarkWinterNights · Answer

I wouldn’t want to spend a lot of money on a first date. You don’t even know if you’re compatible.

DWornock · Answer

At age 48, you should be thankful that you can even get a date. Certainly, you shouldn't be looking in the mouth of a gift horse.

foxsquirrell · Answer

I see absolutely nothing wrong with it, as long as it is not too late in the dark in a secluded park. If it is broad day light park setting I think its a good idea. I like it.

noohair · Answer

You are free to do as you please. But I understand your suspision. Maybe he is just broke or does not want to spend money to find out that there is no chemistry.

Samhanks · Answer

First date to a park is fine, to walk in natural surroundings, hold each others hands, sit on a bench, talk, and get to know each other better and also to plan your Second Date ! :)

elianmuse · Answer

I don’t see anything wrong with that, the park is quiet and that’s the best environment for getting to know each other. He might actually take you somewhere else after the walk in the park.

OddBeMe · Answer

Hopefully he has more planned. Maybe there’s an event? Food trucks are fun.  Perhaps don’t judge on bad date planning. More on his personality. We guys have rough with first dates. He’s trying.

Anonymous · Answer

why is that cringe? do you have a better idea? then say it to him.

TeatimewithCowboys · Answer

It’s a first date. I’ve never met you. If I go out and drop $$$ when I’ve never met someone, that that’s a red flag on me. It’s so sad that y'all care about how nice the date is rather than enjoying the person. Just sad.

JHNS98 · Answer

Wonderful romantic picnic date. Nothing to worry about

Archferret · Answer

life's too short to make simple things complicated

Rouba99 · Answer

Really at the park where kids play and people just sit there and chill and eat chips…... not romantic at all , go to the cinema or restaurant it’s more quiet and good place to make connection with both of you

Pacquet · Answer

Why is it cringe? Walk us through your thought process. Seems fine to me.

exitseven · Answer

I am a real cheapskate but even i would not do that for a first date.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I saw a horror documentary movie where the killer asked the victim to meet him in the park Order a pizza and go to sleep

Anonymous · Answer

Who's bringing the shovel you or him? Are you splitting the cost of the plastic liner bags? Is the hole already dug because that takes at least a couple of hours.. just make sure you or him do it st night less witnesses around

OlderAndWiser · Answer

What would you prefer?

Anonymous · Answer

why? are you getting the impression that he's cheap?

tfan1 · Answer

Depends if that park is known for crime, etc

Alex-Snow · Answer

Sure why not as long as other people are kinda nearby

Unit1 · Answer

Its normal. Or Do you have a better suggestion?

Vampire_Killing_Time · Answer

I want you to invite me into your mind for a second. Why do you think a park is... cringe?

Djaay · Answer

Nothing is ever cringe. Meeting someone for a important relation isn't ever a bad thing. But those who believe in cringe ARE cringe.

scooogy · Answer

I once thought of inviting whichever woman on a date in a park, but after having dinner, and not right away.

Cozybear95 · Answer

I think it's okay as long as the park has a high traffic of people. It depends on the park I guess. If you want to go to dinner, maybe try to persuade him to take you to dinner after if you have time.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Sounds romantic to me, but it's up to you, lady.

dudeinohio · Answer

A walk in a park is quite normal for a first date. Many people do it.

collie22 · Answer

There are some private spots in the park I skating in

Pohjolan · Answer

You are 48 not 18. Manage your expectations a bit.

prakhindev92 · Answer

You should go , who knows , you might have a 7 course meal after that date 😉

Safaalove · Answer

I think that this kind of person is cheap. Its not to spend money on you.. thats what I firmly think... I ve never accepted walks in parc.

Anonymous · Answer

the park? not a restaurant? He sounds poor. Was he pushing a shopping trolley containing personal possessions and empty cans

krin_m · Answer

Depends. If I is an isolated place, be careful.

CubaPirate · Answer

Nothing wrong with it if he's providing the picnic

Hazel232 · Answer

Go for it but don’t do anything sexual if he asks you

riverrat3 · Answer

Go way to spend time talking and getting to know each other

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No; you're cringe. Why don't you like parks?

Apple1996 · Answer

Nah a park date is cute

spartan55 · Answer

You have high maintenance written all over you.

DishLady · Answer

Yeah why not.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

Why is it cringe?

ta-ra · Answer

I don't think so I think it's sweet.

bota_selena · Answer

I think it’s definitely not

Starlove4 · Answer

Lol kidnapper vibes unless it’s a picnic

DreamLife7 · Answer

You're 48 years old. Why are you asking us?

rienna888 · Answer

No that’s fine

zagor · Answer

As long as it's not at midnight...

Twalli · Answer

I don't see anything wrong with that.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

My policy now: never say no. Be a yes girl

AmeerX · Answer

Of course you should go

driven159 · Answer

maybe he wants you to feel safe in a public place

Luopio27 · Answer

Would a 5 star hotel breakfast be better?

MJtheCoach · Answer

You’re 48 years old. Not a hot 19 year old girl.

legalboxers · Answer

a park is public and open

brownup · Answer

Why not.. enjoy the fresh air.

Anonymous · Answer

Don’t go, he’s a broke loser🤣

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

Do you trust him

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe he’s broke

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