My boyfriend never compliments me, but talks about other women being hot?

[Anonymous]

He’s always talking about hot celebrities, or how this average dude on internet, married a pretty chick. Never uses words like that to me and I’ve started feeling insecure. He’s a 10, has always had pretty women around and he makes sure I know that. I’m decent looking, but definitely don’t get the attention he gets.

[DaveJord]

Okay sounds like he is using you as a placeholder. Like the bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. Like if you cannot be with the one you love, love the one you have. But is he really loving you, or using you?

Let me tell you about these people that look like 10s, that does not make him a 10. I mean to me a woman that is a 10 to me, will tell me that I am handsome or fun to be around. If she looks like a 10 but does not say any of those things to me, or makes me feel good about myself, then she is not a true 10 to me.

Trust your gut it never lies to you, you are feeling something about this situation, and I really and truly hope you do not ignore your feelings. You should try to talk to him about it, I mean I am moderately handsome person, but I know I am not a 10. So honestly it doesn't really matter much to me if people think I am handsome, because I know I am not ugly. So, I want someone to think more of me then just as a handsome person... so yes, it doesn't matter to me if a woman tells me that she thinks I am handsome, unless I want her to think I am handsome... and if I want her to think I am handsome, that because I am into her and I will make sure she knows that I am.

If he is not doing that for you or to you, then you might have an issue here you need to think about. So, trust that gut, and do not ignore your feelings or sacrifice your own self-worth in order to appease someone else. You are feeling the way you feel for a reason, and that really matters, so you really need to explore your feelings and trust your gut.

[CatVader]

question is.. is he an alpha Chad?
then you might just be a side chick...
usually in the dating world woman mostly fight or multi date the same top 10% of men while the rest is invisible. so it is something to be aware of if he is the type to have multiple women or is being chatted up by others.

ofc he could be a decent guy, just.. be aware of that cultural tendency at play.

just my 2C

[Luckycharms12]

So what if good looking doesn't mean he has be sick

[Pterodon]

Dump the insensitive jerk

[Asker]

That’s what I’ve also been thinking tbh 😖

[serious]

That is not a good thing at all.

[Mahitoo]

I hope you enjoy him.

[Wise4myage]

That chump deserves to be dumped.

[shades777]

well maybe your not hot

[Anonymous]

But yet you're still with him

[Opinion Owner]

Find a better guy

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s true