Pursue or let her be? Last date didn’t have sexual chemistry as weeks prior. She’s liking a lot of my stories, yet didn’t want to go out on dates?

[Anonymous]

There are a lot of signs showing she’s not interested. I asked her out early last week and ignored my date request but continued to talking over text. I started sending short reply’s cuz I thought it was rude. She’s been interacting with my socials a lot. Last time we talked in person she sort of apologized for mixed signals too so I don't know what she wants.

[HappyWoman34]

Sounds like you like each other.. as a friend. That happened to me when I went on a few dates with a man who’s now a good mate of mine, Matt. We got on so well as people and really liked each other, but sadly, there was no spark for either of us.

[Asker]

Definitely forgot to preface this with we’ve been dating for a month before this weirdness. She literally couldn’t get enough of me saying quote for quote “she’s addicted to me and our sexual chemistry but doesn’t think she’s the right person for me. And that we took things too fast.”

[HappyWoman34]

She’s possibly being nice or confused about what she wants. Be direct and ask her.

[Asker]

She is confused! One thing I’ve learned over dating lots and a previous 5 year relationship is that you never want to force anything to happen. When I say pursue, I mean, do I pursue her if she reaches out to me? Or leave her be?

[HappyWoman34]

Pursue