I went on a first date with some woman and we had a good time. She laughed a lot and it lasted a good 2 hours and a half. When we left she messaged me 30 minutes later stating she made it home and she enjoyed talking. It did seem a little bit off and dry and not her usual texting style. I told her I was glad she made it home. The next day I asked her if she would want to go out again and then she messaged me of something minor that she remembered from the date that made her feel silly (me correcting her on difference between two subjects) and wanted to be honest, but she did say that she would be down to meet up again. Following that i messaged her later and her response came in later and seemed a bit dry when I asked about her day. Now almost a week later I am trying to decide if I should ask her on another date or if I should just move on. I am ok with either if it works out or not, it is just I would like to know if it is a good idea to message her. I know before she used to text frequently and often times start conversations, but that changed since that first date, and now we haven't talked since and ai noticed she unmatched me (not sure if she unmatched or just deleted). I appreciate all honest opinions.
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If you’re still interested in her then go ahead and ask her out. She’s trying to read the room just like you are, and could be having similar sentiments about the change in conversation. Mind you, she isn’t aware of how you’re interpreting all this or how you’re feeling, so she may feel like you’re losing interest or pulling away as well. Don’t bother asking me why this or how that — I couldn’t tell you. In fact no body else outside of her can speak her mind, so if you’re genuinely curious then ask her out and if she agrees, you could have a conversation on your date.
I would go for another date and see where it takes you. Ask her about the unmatched issue.