Let's keep this superficial... cause we all know looks are crucial at 20 yo.
Just shave your head. Own it.
And then, workout, exercise, get buff.
What’s 100% more unattractive than baldness is insecurity.
By owning your baldness, by showing the world you don’t give a f*ck about your baldness, by embracing it, it’s an opportunity to show how confident you are despite having a bald head.
Just like short guys who are good with ladies — they may be short, but they are absolutely brimming with confidence.
The short guys that have trouble with women are the ones who are insecure about their height.
And it’s the same with baldness.
The ones who have no issues dating women are those who aren’t insecure about it. They own it.
So to recap:
The most important thing you need is confidence and to not be insecure about your baldness.
The secondary thing is to work out, get buff, so that you can enhance your overall physique, as there are plenty of attractive guys who have shaved heads and athletic physiques.
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I had this issue mid 20s , its interesting because what seems like a huge deal now ( and I appreciate the question having been there ) , firstly shave it off , be fully shaved and proud , now when I did this it was not socially acceptable , it was considered you wanted to look like a thug , or a hit man , but completely acceptable now.
Keep fit and workout , you may already be doing this , but really go for it , you will thank yourself , and include diet into this exercise , this is an obvious one.
The toughest thing for me , was converting from a young " surfer boy " with blonde hair , that women loved , into this different form , but both were good , the vast majority of it was in my own head as my look evolved , and I became actually more popular if anything , never had an issue.
Now , the obvious one from here after we have done all of the above is presentation , really try and keep it cool , create your own look , copy but keep it a little unique , season dependent , match hats , but make them part of the outfit , but be sure to take them off confidently , and put back on , you are not hiding anything , you are co ordinating.
Remember , our confidence comes from within , create the real you , and dont let others ( nearly always other men ) put you down , because my creating something unique you will have a massive advantage , and remember this age is the toughest , its only going to get better and better , remember the colours , and the look , plus the hats , match them all , shave it off and go , go , go.
Really wishing you well , but you don't need my wishes , you will be fine , I've been shaving my head now for 35 years , and the last thing I'd want now is a mop of grey hair.
Hats are fun. I love hats. Great way to show some personality and style.
You have to try to not be uncomfortable with yourself, because that's what makes others comfortable. There are people with disfigured faces, one arm, and all sorts of disabilities both physical and mental, yet generally speaking, we carry on.
I used to hate how often I would bump into my next door neighbour when I went to go throw the trash out. There she was, quiet, not saying a word. It was so awkward. I wouldn't have makeup on and my hair was messy, and she was always unfriendly. But I decided it was worse to be seen as unfriendly (like her), and vain, so I acted like I didn't care how I looked. (She never got warmer, tbh, which doesn't help my story, exactly, lol.) But nonetheless, we all have weaknesses and flaws and imperfections, but we are not defined by them. We have to prioritize the positives. That's the only way to not be miserable.
And wear hats. And find a cool hairstylist. They're expert in these matters.
I had a 19 year old friend who was balding when we were that age. Though hair might be an important "asset" it's not a personality flaw. The reason you're balding is due to inheritance and genetics. There must be men in your family who lost their hair early, and they survived.
Do you have a good sense of humor? A brain? Attractive face? Body? Focus on what you DO have, not on what you don't. And as fair as necessities go, hair doesn't give you As on college tests, doesn't get you a job, can't fix a car, clean a house or cook a meal. Hair doesn't take care of your kids or pay your bills or wash the clothes or plant a garden. Doesn't read bedtime stories or sing songs.
It's just window dressing. 1/3 of men significantly lose it before age 40.
Revel in who you are and all the positive things you do. Find a look that works for you. Shave it off, or keep what's on the sides and back while you have it, and don't base feelings about yourself on hair.
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It’s okay. Half of the men’s population is bald. No worries. I promise girls will still want you. Just Shave your head.
I have been shaving my head bald since I was 26. Slap a goat tee on there and now you are a cut above the rest. Women either like full bald heads or a man who has a great head of hair.
Don't treat it as a flaw, treat it as a benefit. Many women love bald guys.
Own it! I started loosing my hair when i was 17, tried to make it look good until i was 22 and i am bald (clean razor shave) since then. Nothing changes on the attraction side, i never had problems with dating, it was all empty thoughts in my head, many girls/women thinks bald men are more sexier that men with hair. It will take few years to feel comfortable with it. Do not get hair barbie planting, it looks stupid and it's expensive too. Be like MIKE, Walter White, Bruce Willis and Dwayne Johnson.
If it bothers you that much, have you considered getting one of those non-surgical hair systems? I've seen videos of men having them done, they look fantastic. They cost a few hundred I think, but could be worth saving the money back for.
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HAIT TRANSPLANT.
it takes longer and actually grows your hair.
Just shave it. You will look much better than with patches of hair. (no Mather how bad you think you look bald)
I went through the same thing (balding before 21y), and started to shave it at 25 only regret not doing it sooner.
As for the women, I treat this as a filter for them. And it’s also fair game for me because I have some things I don’t find attractive in a woman that they can’t control. (as most people have)I don't mean to be so serious here, but have you ever thought you may have a medical condition causing your hair to fall out?
I knew a guy that went bald at age 18. Besides that, his testicles were as small as almonds. The other thing is he couldn't produce any children. He orange had no seeds.
There is a condition called hypergonadism.you could eat garlic as it has been shown to cure baldness, there are also treatments (pharmaceutical) or you could get your hair cloned.
to be honest looking at natural remedies is a good idea. its cheap and has no side effect. also stress increases hair loss so don't get stressed.
You don't. As you are the genetic flaw, that must not be allowed to breed at any cost.
You need to become a priest and take up celibacy, else be beaten and thrown into a river, wearing concrete shoes.
The bald gene must be eliminated.
What were you growing your hair like an alpaca to supply a sweater factory as your primary source of income? What’s the big deal? Just shave your head sissy.
Work out. That's the failsafe answer to baldness. My hairs been thinning. Doctor said I need to chill or it might not be reversable. Been spending more time in the gym. If your fit, they'll want to touch it.
Just accept you’re going bald and either shave it all off or get surgery to replace your hair. Shaving it would be less expensive and can still be attractive
You could get hair implants, ik a guy who did it at 18 worked brilliantly.
Or shave your head, some men look amazing like that.In the long term, a good career, personality and a healthy body would help you a lot.
Also it goes without saying that you might need to get some treatment it it bothers you that much.
Also, don't overthink about how attractive you are to the opposite genderShave your head in my opinion! And generally just be a good person who is open and friendly.
But mostly just do whatever you’re comfortable withEmbrace it! A lot of stars like a shaved head even though they have hair. Some even look better without hair in fact. Bruce Willis, The Rock, Shemar Moore, Vin Diesel just to name a few.
Put on a wig and run for President once you're old enough :)
It works for other (s) - so it'll work for you.
Practically - accept yourself as is and let your other traits shine brighter.
People are not made of hair only.
Buff up, my dude. Also, don't worry about going bald; especially if you can grow a beard. Women LOVE that look.
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