Is dating all about physical attraction?

[Anonymous]

Let’s cut the s***. It’s all about physical attraction that gets you in the door 🚪Then personality

Also I’m a skinny guy, does that mean I need to get big and muscly?

I agree

I disagree

[Anonymous]

Well I didn’t find my ex attractive but we vibed really well, ended up dating for over 5 years. I hit the jackpot with my current boyfriend tho, I was attracted to him from the very first moment we met then I learned that he’s a dope dude, the complete package. So I mean looks doesn’t really guarantee that you’ll have a successful dating life but it sure might help a ton

[Asker]

Do you think I should get big? Will that make much difference?

[Opinion Owner]

Not necessarily, maybe it wouldn’t hurt to gain some mass/weight but you don’t have to pack on a lot of muscles.

[boggboss]

No its nit it vary important for the first stages of it as that'd the first thing u get to see but amazing looks won't fix a awful personality unless u are only looking for sex and even then it might not be good enough

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes, and mental attraction, both are required.

But no it doesn't mean you have to change, plenty of women will like what you already are.

[jennifer_bloom]

High quality people look at other things. Low quality people base it entirely on looks.

[Twalli]

I'm 5'4" and about 135 lbs soaking wet. I am in a 5+ year relationship and I probably don't eclipse a 5 on the 10 point scale unless I wear a hat. You can get a girlfriend the way you are. It just isn't easy.

[GrikGad]

Put on muscle. But not for them. You do that for you.

If you're putting on muscle for them, you won't last long in that journey and it will be a waste of time.

Putting on muscle has more benefits, than just getting a girl.

[Anonymous]

No. But that's where it starts. So if you're ugly or fat you are going to have a tough time convincing them you're worthy of them. In fact I wouldn't even try. It's been my experience that the women who are truly interested will ask you.

[Anonymous]

Only people with shitty personalities have your attitude.

[Chthou95]

Its a huge part of it. A personality won't do jack shit for you if you're not attractive (physically) first

[shades777]

well unless your blind then its all about personality lol

[jahaims]

Nope

[In_Trance]

For some people, yes