I am a girl that most men would desire, but I am very picky, what should I do?

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[DWornock]

What you will do, is date the hottest guys that will fuck you and reject guys within your league that want to marry you. That is easy for you because guys date down for sex, but they marry equals and the guys you will date and fuck are a little to a lot out of your league. Finally, after ten years of one-night stands and a half dozen going nowhere relationships, you will realize that you need to find a guy that will marry and not just fuck and dump you.

However, by then, you will have lost your bloom. And, remembering all the nice guys you rejected from age 17 to 22 or possibly 18 to 25, and not being proposed to by guys like that anymore, you will look around and ask, "Where are all the nice guys?" They are still there, but you are no longer the HOT nineteen year old that they would have walked through fire for if only you had given them a chance. Instead, you are this almost 30-year-old that is hitting the wall. Therefore, they don't want you anymore. Instead, they want the sweet, sexy, very pretty HOT girl that you are now.

That is what you will do. What you should do, is to stop chasing guys that, if you could snare one, you would think you are doing well and learn to look for guys not quite that hot that if they could date you, they would think they are doing well. Of course, you will not do that because out of the dozens of married women you know, you will see one that somehow did snare a hot guy out of her league, and you will believe you can beat the fifty-to-one odds and do the same.

[Masterodd]

THANK YOU FOR STATING THAT SO PERFECTLY!!!

[AviatorTom]

You can try two things:

1. Try to be less picky. As you get older, you'll realize that there's no such thing as perfect.

2. Keep your options open until you find a guy that you like.

Oh, one more thing. You're young, don't fret over it. You've got plenty of time to find a guy who's right for you.

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[DevikaButts95]

Be less picky, find someone you enjoy being around.

[Flatmanlewis]

I’d like to hear how you have come to this conclusion that most men would desire you? Is this a self-assessment or something you’ve been told enough times to have a ring of truth to it?


I don’t think being picky is wrong in any way. Raise your standards and you’ll cut out a lot of the unnecessary drama in life.

[smilelots]

Hello, is that your opinion or everybody else’s opinion that you are desirable either way somewhere along the line you either are less picky or do without you need to find out what you really want in a relationship and you may find that the average guy out there has more to offer than somebody that you think you want Honesty, integrity, caring, loving, giving funny good in bed good out of bed good cook, loves children. Happy go lucky.

[syncheart]

I think you need to get your priorities straight. Make a list of the most important things about a man. No man is perfect so you will never be able to have it all. But maybe you can at least get the best on your list. And good luck.

[HippoDino]

Forget about looks and date a guy who you get along with so well he might as well be your best friend.

[Billlewis]

Just continue screening guys until you find one you like.

[Billlewis]

Thank you for the point, Goddess. I think it's wonderful that you're comfortable admitting that you're very selective in your personal life. I just started following you and I'd be honored if you'd follow me as well, if it's alright.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Choose a guy you are comfortable dating.

[BLP11520]

Actually? Stay picky and don't lower your standards.

[Miristheiss]

Can you be more specific?

Do about what?

[Med_guy1978]

Be picky, you have the right to be. When you eventually pick, pick right.

[DextroShade]

Lower your standards, you are probably not as hot as you think you are.

[RavVid]

At 19 you can be picky.

[Siri137]

LOL, really? Show us a picture then.

[smilelots]

What’s a picture gonna do for us? It probably isn’t even her.

[DarkLegacy]

You should be and stay alone

[Masterodd]

stop being picky

[Pohjolan]

Isn't it obvious? Pick the guy you want.

[LunarEclipse433]

What is your criteria for a date?

[Adogdog]

Be less picky LOL, What do you think of me?

[Adogdog]

Hello lol

[Anonymous]

Keep a blindfold handy.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Well... Pick.

[Luckycharms12]

Do you

[Slim57]

Not be so picky