Dating

I have too specific of a type which I’m not willing to compromise on. How do I approach the men I want?

I like non boring men and to me no boring men who don’t deeply appreciate the arts and are creative. I also only date men I find attractive physically meaning men who are taller than me with good faces. I don’t compromise on these because I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with someone I found unattractive and boring, that seems inconsiderate and unfair. I can find a man boring for a multitude of reasons ranging from being too strictly religious to being a sports fanatic.

This is not a judgement on men who like different things to me but I know I could never be happy with someone who wasn’t sensitive, open minded, thoughtful, and artistic. I wouldn’t mesh well with a sports fan or a guy who dresses a certain way like a thug or a wanna be playboy or outdated because I think that’s apart of being artistic having self expression through clothing even if it’s simple.

This is not to say I’m rejecting men, they don’t come up to me in the first place but the type of men I’m interested in are far to invested in their own little worlds to approach so I need to know to approach a man when there’s no scenario aiding it. I’m never lucky enough to be next to an attractive guy while waiting in line or while at a mutual hobby event. It’s always sometime inconvenient so I need to know how to approach without an excuse or real “reason” because I constantly see guys I think I could be compatible with and then next thing their gone and I missed my opportunity.

How do you approach a man without being too straightforward to start off with “Hi my names anon I find you attractive” because i think that is forced, too boring, and an odd way to meet someone when speaking to them for the first time.

I have too specific of a type which I’m not willing to compromise on. How do I approach the men I want?
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