What can l do to separate myself from other men when it comes to attracting a partner?

[Anonymous]

[rubyx1]

Be yourself. it sounds stupid but it's literally the best thing you can do. don't try act as someone you're not and don't hold back being your true self just to get with someone. Put yourself out there and you will attract what is meant for you, a person shouldn't feel like they have to separate themselves from everyone else just yo be the"perfect" partner, that's how you get into a cycle of not thinking you're enough and overthinking every single thing about yourself. Before i got with my current boyfriend, there was so many guys who tried to get my attention and initiate with me ; but i could see right through them and see their intention. No matter how good you try to display yourself it's always going to be seen through if your intention are not pure, and even if they are you're setting yourself up for failure pretending to be something you're not and changing your very existence just to attract someone. Trust me from personal experience, It doesn't matter how much a person changes their dress sense, looks literally anything to meet someone preferences. It will never be enough, no matter how much you try to be the "ideal" person for them, you'll be wasting your time trying to change to meet other people needs. Best advice i can give you is work on yourself and attributes you think are not that great and just keep putting yourself out there. Trust me you'll find someone who'll love you for you, i thought i wouldn't and tried so hard to chase after people who didn't want me and wasted my time trying to fit into their idea of perfect and in the end i just kept getting hurt I don't want you to go down that rabbit hole i wish you luck in finding someone, but please don't try to change who you are just to get someone.

[Asker]

Thank you for taking the time to respond with such a lengthy and honest response.

[rubyx1]

You're welcome good luck with finding someone!

[Anonymous]

Don't copy or listen to other men is the best thing you can do. The worst enemy of man IS other men.