Would it be smart to date a guy with six kids with the youngest being only one?

[Egyptiannn]

[kylee2437]

I would never. So much baggage and so much opportunity to work things out with whomever he had those kids with, and if he doesn’t that’s a huge red flag in itself.

[Egyptiannn]

Yea. I’ve seen him with one of his kids but even then he doesn’t do nothing more than buy him clothes or shoes and it seems he only does that just for his own ego. To be able to say “I did this for my son. You can’t call me a bad father.” and then he always seems to play the victim when he does bring his kids up. He always seems to want to see his kids on his terms and when the mothers are busy on his terms he flips it and makes them seem like they’re keeping his kids away from him and that they’re bad people. He also only seems to care about his kids for show on social media or when their birthdays come around or holidays.

[kylee2437]

I noticed when people have that many children, it almost seems like they start to not care about those children because it’s just so much responsibility in the end.

[Egyptiannn]

Yea. Like when he does pretend to care it seems, I hate to say it, forced. For sympathy or for the sake of not looking like a deadbeat.

[Flatmanlewis]

Sounds like a candid insight into his overall character. If you can shun your own blood what makes you think he will somehow be different for you or any children you ever have?

[DarkLegacy]

Likewise we would not date single mums

[kylee2437]

@DarkLegacy being a single mother vs having 6 children is very different

[DarkLegacy]

But if she had six kids

[kylee2437]

Well of course lol having more than 2 kids in my opinion is baggage and even then depending on person to person

[DarkLegacy]

Well im glad that most men would never with a single mum irrespective

[kylee2437]

Most women wouldn’t either lol

[kylee2437]

Most women just don’t speak about how they wouldn’t

[Staximus]

This guy had obviously never heard of condoms. How many women does he have six kids with? If it's more than 2 then you are just going to be his next "baby's momma", and then he will be off getting another woman pregnant after you had his baby

[Avicenna]

How often does he have all these kids? How much money does he make?

[Joshuabenitez]

Guys like that usually work stocking shelves at rite aid. They usually work low paying jobs or else their child support will increase. The more money they make the worse their life will be. So it's probably a middle to low tier job.

[Nifrayu]

@Joshuabenitez that's only if he doesn't have custody of his kids.

[Avicenna]

@Joshuabenitez: Probably, but a guy still needs something to live on, and $12 an hour won't cut it if the majority of it goes to child support, which in most places it would.

[Joshuabenitez]

@Avicenna yeah I know a guy who just works a low paying job and he just parties and smokes weed all day. His child support is almost nothing. They can't make him pay anymore money for his child support because he can't afford to live.

But let's say if you have a luxury high paying job and you lost it for whatever reason you're still expected to pay $3000 a month in child support. They never adjust your child support payments lower even if you lose your job or are working with a lower wage.

So it's not worth it to get a better paying job because they won't lower your child support payments.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You do realize, it’s not a very smart decision right?

[HippoDino]

What's smart is doing what will make you happy in life. If this is the man of your dreams and you wouldn't mind looking after kids then don't hold back.

[lildkman1090]

I would really think it over and weigh your options

[Mangospacho]

Yes, that would be a genius move right there.

[gurliegurl9]

It depends on if you like kids or not if you like kids I guess it’s OK but if you don’t like him so I’m definitely not but you have to get to know him more and the kids and what the mother of the kids are like

[Anonymous]

[Nifrayu]

I don't think there is anything stupid or smart about it. It depends on whether or not you can handle a relationship with a parent of 6.

[genericname85]

hell no. unless you're infertile and want 6 kids.

[DaBiggestBird]

That sounds worse than playing Apex Legends without any audio.

[Chayce]

That’s 100% worse than playing Apex with no sound

[DaBiggestBird]

@Chayce dog Jamm it is so refreshing to hear someone say something that is a complete fact. That might have been the most presidential thing you’ve said in your life. Thank you further validating my point. I tried it out yesterday and even just one ear is a crippling headache. People already sneak up on me while running more than enough even with functional audio, I feel like a French soldier during their war against Austria and Prussia.

[jeffend888]

Oh yeah, that's extremely smart.

In fact, your age is the perfect age to do that.

[Emanon25]

That if you can take the responsibility of taking care of them.

[goldenboybrady]

It would be dirt-dumb. SIX KIDS, THE YOUNGEST A YEAR OLD. WHAT ARE YOU THINKING?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. Understand dating people with kids come with potential drama.

6 kids is a lot of kids.

[shades777]

sure women are always wanting men to date single moms, so this balances it out

[kylee2437]

There’s a difference between single mothers and single parents of 6 children

[shades777]

definitely

[HelpfulWoman]

noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

[LazerBean]

No, you're just going to be baby mama #7

[ChefPapiChulo]

You got some chunky legs

[LazerBean]

Thanks

[Danny_dan92]

You will become baby mammas # 8

[Mahitoo]

😂😂😂😂

[butterly248]

Need more context here!

[jahaims]

Why take on all his baggage

[TiaNour]

I’d pass if I was you

[DarkLegacy]

Likewise we would not date single mums

[Guardian45]

Ummm. I don't think so.

[LunarEclipse433]

If it was me, I would shy away

[BLP11520]

I don’t think so that is a lot of responsibility

[Solo3k]

Nah his pull out game weak

[slatyb]

No, it wouldn't.

[sheikalana]

Hmmm No.

[DarkLegacy]

Likewise we would not date single mums

[sheikalana]

@DarkLegacy and I don't see anything wrong with that.

[DarkLegacy]

Lol at the deleted answers,

[DarkLegacy]

Lol again, im sorry i thought i was commenting on a different answer. It has been a tiring day

[sheikalana]

@DarkLegacy need a coffee?

[DarkLegacy]

No bedtime for me soon

[sheikalana]

@DarkLegacy rest well.

[Chayce]

Are you insane

[Anonymous]

Oh 6 kids did he recently divorce?

[Luckycharms12]

Of course not

[Kristierose]

Why not