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Everytime I try and express how I feel that part gets blocked out because he's put distance between us due to distance and he has a fear of commitment. The conversation is there and it's awkwardness.. I'm holding back feelings now
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You surely won't make progress by getting answers here
I know I don't know what to do
Alright spill, I'll try helping you out, what exactly is stopping you from telling him
I did he doesn't want me to get close... when I try and get close he backs off
Last night I suffered.. went to bed in agony tears
The dude is broken, broken people require lots of patience, don't give up just yet, be there for him through rough times and see if his behavior changes with you, with broken people trust is earned not just given
I'm not trying to rush him into anything just want to make sure I'm not wasting my time or investing in anyone who may never change.. I'd hate to move on and meet someone else or remain single as I have been and he'll never have a chance. It's been 4 months now since we met started off as friends and had no expectations.. I'm at a distance because I don't want to get hurt.. he told me he couldn't date me so I felt it was best to pull back he's hot and cold/ inconsistent and I'm guarded.. our conversations are light
How you can love someone who won't show love back or express themselves.. I keep it to myself and hope one day he changes and opens up... I told this man I care for him and like him.. I friend zoned him I have to protect my heart and self
Never told him that I was in love or things are deeper than what it seems... just light and friendly.. I allow him to get close when he's ready and I pulled back.. I treat him like a supportive friend
I don't deal with hold / cold guys who have commitment problems. He's treating me like crap just with his behavior
Well you surely complicated yourself by giving mix signals, you know what we call that? Playing games, the more you play them, the deeper you dig yourself into that hole, I know a thing or two about self sabotage and I've realized that if you protect yourself too much from something you aren't even certain about, it will drive people away, I don't really know how to help you, I'm somewhat broken myself so I wouldn't even take advice from myself but I do think you should stop yourself from sabotaging yourself, stop letting those thoughts of fear of pain prevent you from showing emotions to someone you have strong emotions about, it will just keep you in the bubble and them out of it, it's not the end of the world, I can understand the pain of letting someone slip when they could've been perfect for you, but you'll heal, I promise. 💯
I don't have mixed signals he does - I have pulled back, he's hot and cold not me ! Clearly not ready for commitment or scared to open up. I can't afford to get hurt so our communication is limited due to his behavior.. speaking of that when he texts me he may not here from me at all.. I will not invest my energy where it's not reciprocated
He's pushing me away I told this man how I feel twice and he disregarded it.. he has an issue opening up and expressing himself not me..
Why should I keep expressing myself if he won't?
Why keep dealing with his hot and cold behavior it's clear he's not ready for a relationship or commitment- I am the fool for staying.. most women would block and keep it moving , but I actually care for him and he's letting his fear and whatever get in the way of that.. or whoever hurt him.. he needs to heal and let me be until he's ready for a meaningful relationship instead of bread crumbling me.. I'm not always going to be here.
What he puts out is what he gets back in return % wise
I've been hurt too many times by men why I'm single and have been 12 years.. I don't even date and met this man in a circle of friends on tiktok
Most of you men need therapy before approaching women simple I did theraphy and self-love myself. I don't deal with BROKEN MEN - FACTS
Oh well in that case then the issue is him, again, I'm in no position to judge here, but something you must accept is that it's either him or you, this situation puts you in a spot that you are choosing between him or yourself because you are putting your heart out there for him and he isn't giving many shits about that and to be honest if you've made it clear to him he is either very fucked up or he isn't interested and you can't just stick around living in this pain while he's doing who knows what, you should choose yourself in this situation, it's either break or be broken, some people just have to lose something to learn to value in certain aspects, if opened up to him and he's throwing you aside, I know you don't want to move on, trust me, I know the feeling, that person is "perfect for you" you want that person and no one else but sometimes if not all, the hardest choices are normally the best choices, bad choices are easy to make and stick around when you aren't appreciated will only hurt you, do yourself the favor and let him go, if he doesn't value you, someone else will, it's not the end of the world, even if it's surely feels like it, trust me 💯
If you are not ready to invest with a WOMAN EMOTIONALLY OR MENTALLY DON'T DESL WITH WOMEN. I had no expectations in regards to meeting him - I didn't meet him on a dating app. I met him on tiktok within a group. I don't have an online date... I see him as a friend , but there's no guarantee we will date if he won't change or heal
I just sat here and explained it's him. Most of you men know you're not capable of healthy relationships or to communicate with women why keep approaching us - leave us alone. In the next 1 month and a half I'll be moving off grid, and he'll never hear from me again .
Okay :/
I told him. I don't put my life on hold for a man - 💯..
I have my business and other things on hold like beliefs differently than family
Alright
I haven't opened up to him anymore - feelings are hidden off now. I keep my feelings to myself , but it's only so long before the spark dies out
I don't know how to respond to that
Let it die out, you won't regret it
I have a solution after Thanksgiving I'm gone if there's no change that will be he last chance with me.. me moving was already a delayed and I keep delaying it. Not again... my objective was to go off grid with my mate.. it's not happening this time.. I'm pushing for time as it is
Was supoose to move 2 years ago
Sounds to me like you know what you are going to do here, best of luck anon
Thanks
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Try add him as a friend give him hints make it easy for him to communicate
I did. . . Slow change, but no significant difference yet after 4 months.
You're not like other girls, you're a nice girl.
Thanks glad you can see it 😀
I wish others can see it now back to staying hidden 🫥