Can being unattractive and never having experiences with women make you feel like a loser?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Don't feel like a loser and be proud of being a virgin. Girls will like virgin guys more that non virgin guys. Work on your appearance if you feel you might not be attractive

[Opinion Owner]

* Girls will like virgin guys more than non virgin guys.

[Asker]

Women prefer men with experience

[Opinion Owner]

Non virgin girls will prefer non virgin guys but don't get it twisted. Virgin girls mostly like virgin guys only

[Opinion Owner]

Virginity is always a top tier to another virgin

[Asker]

Virgin women are rare and even then they still prefer experienced men. Its hardwired

[Opinion Owner]

If they are preferring experienced men they are not the right girls that you should date. They are basically the girls who are looking for lust and not love and they are not probably trustworthy. Why do you want to associate yourself with wrong girls? A right girl who is a virgin will only care if you are virgin or not. You can only trust that girl's love.

[Asker]

But i go based on probability, not possibility

[Opinion Owner]

You can choose based on any criteria but make sure you don't use a good girl in the process and don't make yourself victim of a heart break by a girl who is only interested in lust who will make you attached to her and leaves you when you can't let her go which only creates a horrible heart break for you in future more than your low self esteem that you have now. Never lower your standards simply to get a girl for which you may have to pay back later in the form of a highest probability of getting a heart break by a girl who doesn't care about love but only lust. Also make sure you don't break heart of a right girl by using her for adding her to your experienced list and don't leave a girl after she gets attached to you. Don't let society and wrong people destroy you as a right person. Be good and do good, it's more attractive than anything else

[Asker]

Why would i use a good girl when they're rare? If there's a legit one, ill treat her like a rare rare artifact and never took her for granted. But it's rare she does exist

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, she exists. It all needs your little patience and working on yourself the way you would like to see her. She will then find you attractive and would like staying with you

[Asker]

I use to watch Disney movies when i was younger. Im older now and realize life is not a disney movie

[Opinion Owner]

Movies are based on real life stories mostly. Even though some looks fictional, it's always better to have the best qualities yourself so that a good girl can find you attractive. Good girls are mostly attracted to good guys only even though most of the guys have misconception that good girls are attracted to bad guys. It's not always true. Because even if a good girl seems attracted to a bad guy, it will be due to the reason that he chased her first and not with the reason that she find his bad qualities attractive. So if you're a good guy and approach a good girl first without making it look creepy and in a great but good way it can work out greater than you can expect it to be. So don't compare yourself with bad guys and don't become a bad guy simply to attract a girl which might not be a good thought as it could only end up worse as you might be ending up with a wrong girl who will continuosly break your heart and never understand your love and might only use you for temporary lust. So be a good guy and approach the girl that you love in a good way and be patient with her and never force her to get physical and give her time and focus on other aspects of building your relationship meanwhile and slowly express her your feelings and make a permanent future with her instead of looking like a bad guy who only cares about being physical

[jahaims]

Gain your worth from important things. Not from societal pressure.

[Starrrboy]

It can be if it's involuntarily...

[Asker]

Permanent

[Starrrboy]

Wow, permanent... like I said it's normal to make you feel that way.. We're human after all..