Real love is not always about being attracted or interested in each other. It's all about staying with each other even when you lost interest. Agree?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I agree with this

No, I don't agree with this. Love is all about lust. If we lose interest in the other, I believe in finding someone new

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[dynamicyandere]

Love is more than just a flash in the pan of intense feelings.


Real love is shown through sacrifice, loyalty, commitment, and endurance.


Yes, love should have passion as well, and there should be feelings of attraction towards each other.


If that fire is lost, then the loving thing to do is to rekindle that flame.


This is where sacrifice, loyalty, commitment, and endurance can come into play.


Whether what you need is couples counseling, or a heart-to-heart talk about neglected needs or unresolved issues, it’s during this hard time where it’s important for both people to try to bring their relationship back to life, if they truly love each other.


Real love should be passionate.


But if that is lost, then it is up to the other traits of love to revive that passion.


If a couple can persevere through this and bring their love back to life, it shows the strength of their love.


If they do not persevere, and they give up, then the love they have for each other was not strong enough to overcome this challenge.


It’s important that this is a team effort though.


To revive a dying flame takes the effort of 2.

[Asker]

Exactly

[DaySpring]

I believe one shouldn't lose interest in their partner. I think if you are successfully growing your relationship correctly then you'll both be in harmony. If you're winging things then I think the two people can grow apart instead of in harmony. The difference is a vision.

The more I think about love as an action the more I agree with it. Because the idea of love being a feelings is so animalistic. If we are to move upward we have to do away with more of our animalistic nature.

I mean think about lust... Big boobs and big ass... "He's tall"
Is that even important in todays world? I don't think so. Yet we are being pulled by some subconscious rule that was built many many years ago. There isn't much logic in it today because we are so beyond where we once were.

[Anonymous]

No, you need attraction, interest, and an emotional and physical connection.

[Asker]

Attraction doesn't always last. People shouldn't be treated like things as to get used when they have the potential and gets thrown away like useless items. It damages the other person who will get left behind and their perspective on love. Love should be true and not fake. If you don't think you'll be able to love a person permanently you shouldn't choose them. Because they will be building up the hopes to stay with you permanently as soon as you accept them. After you choose a person you shouldn't leave them behind and stay with them permanently. This is the meaning of real love

[jahaims]

Strongly disagree