Can you control love?

[red324]

Personally if you're willing to walk away from her, you don't really love her. I don't think you can control who you fall for either.

[Apple1996]

I don't think so. Our heart and head don't work together to well so sometimes we fall in love with people that we know aren't the best for us.

[Anonymous]

Depends how you mean that exactly. When you love someone you make the conscious decision to love them whether she deserves it or not you cannot control how you feel about someone. But without you can control how you react to those feelings.

[LiamJHayden]

Yes. Love, to me, is the choice to seek the best for another. I will never equate "feelings" with "love" but instead with infatuation and lust.

[LazerBean]

Yes, absolutely. Only a fool who refuses to use self control cannot control who they love.

[exitseven]

No, the heart wants what the heart wants. It does not make sense but it is true.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Partially? You can't control what you like in a person, but you can choose to not suffer through a person you don't like.

[Lady_Heart]

Yes you can, there are so many things we can't control so let's not add love to it. To love is a decision, make it wisely.

[jimmy2]

Not really it slowly comes as a flood

[Redstang88]

100% agree