What do you call a man that ghosts you for a date but pops back up a month later?

[Anonymous]

[VIVANT]

Whether I’d give him a chance, Depends if there’s a reason and he explains himself and if his behavior has obviously improved & it is consistent over them not just the one time.

I’ve ghosted but not bc I was trying to play anyone, I was just coming to terms with lot of stuff and it conflicted with getting involved with anyone and I had no prior experience in dealing with people romantically nor was I inclined to make myself vulnerable for any reason as I saw see as being weak, so “discussing” it at the time, was completely off the table. So I walked away without saying a word.

But after I had worked through some stuff, and he’d a clearer outlook on life and people, I was remorseful for how I handled things and I did pop up months try to make things right.

may have seemed annoyingly and suspiciously random to the other party of course— Esp before I had a chance to explain.

[RoseySarah]

Hm I'd say he is a red flag and block him!

He is history 😂

When dating a few guys did this. Means they found another date and it did not work. Your plan b or plan c to them!

[Asker]

Ridiculous popped back up out of no where texting me at 6:45 am 😭

[RoseySarah]

645 why just desperate and wanting at that time?

Like nope text again when I'm awaken

[Asker]

I don’t even know what to say 🤣 texting me about the job he just landed also

[RoseySarah]

Yeshhhh
So he has no one or is bragging so you think he will have money and date him...

Just say congrats and block.

Or do you like him?

Say congrats and your going back to sleep

[Asker]

I liked him at one point but I realized he’s not relationship material lol I kind of just want to fuck with his head. I’ll say hey congrats but that’s about it lol

[RoseySarah]

Lol to mess with him ask him how much he makes now then what ever it is say you make double!.
That really messed with guys heads

Or say you have a new boyfriend! And your deleting the app

[johnnydeeeep]

A fucking douche and unworthy of your time is how I would refer to him. Likely, you are considering extending him another opportunity to redeem himself worthy of you are publicizing this occurrence. Unless some things happened that produced a radical change within him as a result, he has not changed a bit and if you offer him an opportunity to do it again he will.
Noatter how lonely or bored you may be I assure you, better that than date a guy like him.

[ManOnFire]

A complete coward. Or a dude who ghosted you because there was a better opportunity for a hookup with some other girl, or he went back to his ex but it didn't work out.

Better question: how do you feel about him coming back?

[Asker]

I’m at a point where I think it’s hilarious. 6:45 am text about how he got the job that i was rooting for him to get , a year ago lmao

[ManOnFire]

Wow, and he's just now talking about it? Yeeeeeeeahh, I wouldn't respond to that guy again.

[strateguy632]

probably he found a better opportunity for a hookup with some other girl. so he did not tell you planning just a one nighter before returning. but it ended up more than a one nighter. he did not want her to suspect he talks with other girls so ghosted you until it ended.

[loveslongnails]

Loser. Asshole. Jerky boy. Slime dog. There's a long list.

[Asker]

Love this lol

[loveslongnails]

Most importantly though - don't date him or give him a second chance. He's a bad penny.

[DubiousIntentions]

Maybe his dog died and he lost your number? More like he was dating someone else at the same time and she offered him more.

[loveslongnails]

@DubiousIntentions I agree with this. He had a better deal going, then it ended. She becomes the option.

[Asker]

@lovelongnails it doesn’t matter what he had going because he does it to every girl that gives him a chance

[loveslongnails]

Ok, well since you already knew that, you've got a whole slew of names you can call him. LOL

[Anonymous]

Someone who ghosts you for a date and then reappears a month later can be called a "flaky" or "inconsistent" date. They might also be referred to as someone who has "benched" you, which means they put you on hold while exploring other options.

[DizzyDesii]

A guy playing mindgames who feels he can have you when he wants you

[Asker]

True that’s why I’m about to play mind games lol because idc I just think me blocking is the easy way out 😭 call me a drama Queen but this is going to be fun

[DizzyDesii]

Definitely block

[DB1973]

Had a woman so that. Had no clear explanation why she did it. The spark fizzled real fast. Good looking but when I have made the effort to meet her and no response then weeks later and no explanation…Nah I move on.

[TadCurious]

I call him very inconsiderate. If something happened that he couldn't keep the date he should have told you.

[madhatters4]

a bum. don't bother with those types. clearly they didn't show up for a reason. to reappear a month later with no word is a cowards way out.

[Selliebeanz]

A pimple on my ass. His other shit fell through take the high road and let him know you don’t want his sorry ass either.

[electromagnetic]

rise of the dead.

you don’t call them anything. You turn the opposite direction and run.

[nastyb]

i have been through the same thing. And in my case, he just like the attention / idea of a girl missing him.

[glennos89]

Partime ghost? 🤷‍♂️

Maybe you should be the ghostbuster then

[Asker]

🤣🤣 maybe being a ghost is the new job he got

[glennos89]

Seems like a spooky job to have lol 😂😂😂

[Still-alive]

A guy who's other prospects turned him down and you were next. so you are not his first choice... you were just an option.

[Asker]

He plays games with every woman I’ve discovered

[Still-alive]

yup. stay away.

[Still-alive]

go ahead and ghost him back. one of the few times i think ghosting is warranted lol.

[Anemone978]

Would personally ask him whats up and what he wants.. once I heard his reply i'd block him.

[Anonymous]

it didn't work out with the girl he ghosted you for and he's desperate so he's grasping at straws here.

[Asker]

Not the first time he ghosted lol he treats every woman like this

[Opinion Owner]

just awful. i've known guys like that. stay away from him

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Just like what you call a woman that ghosts you for a date but pops back up a month later

[nastyb]

what does this have anything to do with a woman?

[strateguy632]

@nastyb just that it is same

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@nastyb just like what it has to do with men.

[NobodyLikesMeBut]

My EX Was Like That
And Literally Joked One Time
"Cya In A Month" 🙄😒

Even Had This Weird
Little Catchphrase
"Only On The Weekends" 🤦‍♀️

[Asker]

Oh girl I’m so sorry you went through that. I don’t understand these men honestly. I find behaviors like this hilarious now.

[Rangers]

A damned jackass that doesn't respect you one bit, ignore him

[jeffend888]

At your age, not someone you should be wasting time with.

[pickles77]

inconsiderate. People like this will just piss you off overtime

[Asker]

He pissed me off so much to the point where I looked at the text and laughed my ass off

[pickles77]

Yup just block him you don’t need that

[Anonymous]

Looks like the whole restaurant ghosted you.

[Anonymous]

I'd call him and idiot and loser.

He couldn't find new girl so he came back in disappointment 🤣

[Yannae]

Paranormal Activity.

[Asker]

😭😭😭 sheesh just before Halloween. What a treat

[Yannae]

So was your question, miss :) thanks for the post

[Joshydavid25]

Casper... That's what you call him..

[PrincessBunBuns]

Out of options. Boy bye

[provokeesmokee]

A coward who missed the boat.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Stud😂😂
It means he has options

[Asker]

No he doesn’t lol he treats them all like crap

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Guys have 2 zones just like girls have friendzone
1sex only zone (recreational use only)
2 commitment zones (where guys commit to girls)
So if the guy in the friendzone means no sex and gives his resources that's L for guys
And when guys get sex and gives zero to no resources to girls that's W for guy and L for girls
It's like that.. so if guys sleep around with more girls he is stud for sure 😊😂👍 morally yes it's wrong but it is what it is.. thanks to hookup culture 🧫 girls are easy

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

L for girls for being in sex zones

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

If guys have sex with multiple girls that makes him stud
It is what it is...
Yes morally it's wrong.. I'm just stating fact

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Thanks to hookup culture

[Asker]

We never had sex and we haven’t hung out since last year lol I’m not sex zoned, he doesn’t even make it to sex with these women

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

If guys ghost u then he probably has options... once check if he is lying or not.. maybe he is playing innocent

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

I never said ur in sex zones
What I'm saying is how men operate

[Asker]

I have options too, it has nothing to do with options lol it has to do with him messaging me at 6:45 am about his job. I wouldn’t ever give into hanging out with him again.

[Asker]

And honestly I made this question as a joke because I think him even having the audacity to message me at this point is hilarious

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

U don't get it
90 percent guys u know u wouldn't be attracted too
Most options u have wouldn't be attractive to you in general
Where guys are more physical so 40-60 of them will be attractive to our eyes 👀 no offence intended

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Seem like u want to keep u in his options based on message on his job..

[Asker]

I couldn’t care less lol a vast majority of men aren’t even worth anything. Very select amount that are worth time. It’s just hard that you have to dig through a pile of trash to find treasure

[Asker]

And sounds like you are taking personally a question that was a joke lol

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

I agree with... No I was trying to make a point two different things i have nothing to do with u or him.. I was just making a point

[Asker]

There’s no point , he has such no game to the point where sex is even on the table lol he ghosted plans to even remotely hang out a month ago

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

That's what I said earlier 90percent u will not find attractive in the first place where for guys it's a different way to solely go for look..

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Maybe u know 😂 him more than me 😂

[Asker]

He’s attractive but like he ruined his chances. It taught me that no text I ever send is embarrassing at this point because there's nothing more embarrassing than the text he sent today

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Okay

[RingOfFire]

A jerk? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[Billlewis]

Casper?

[Asker]

🤣🤣🤣

[Iron_Man]

Starving for sex

[shades777]

casper the friendly ghost

[strateguy632]

the not so friendly!

[virtualwasp]

wack a mole

[Asker]

🤣🤣🤣

[Ceeeeeee]

He ran out of options

[Asker]

He’s on dating apps, he wouldn’t run out of options, this is just how he is and it’s hilarious

[Vikkrram]

A**h*le i would say

[Nirmroth]

Zombie

[Xoxocutekitty]

Loser

[slatyb]

A flake.

[overthinkergirl]

he is a no

[Jazzy54]

A jerk. 🙄

[Wise4myage]

A clown.

[In_Trance]

Desperate

[nawtee_me]

An ex…

[BLP11520]

A jerk

[jimmy2]

Stay away