Girl didn’t know my name on third date?

[Anonymous]

Been talking to her for 3 weeks and went on our third date last night. I asked her what my name was and she couldn’t answer it. We follow each other on social media so if she could of looked it up if she forgot it

[SueShe]

That is the problem of today's people. Everyone is so superficial that nobody really takes the time to think further than the tip of their noses.

She may not remember your name because she knew in advance that this will not be a long lasting relationship. Nowadays, all that matters when meeting people is how quick can they fornicate and after the experience is over, one quickly moves to the next victim or target. There is no need to know the first name since that would create a certain connection or bond that will be more difficult to forget.

I suppose that it is better not to know the first name and to be able to move on much faster.

[Anonymous]

I remember when I first met my boyfriend, it was a drunken night and I forgot his name the next day. We went on a couple dates and for like a good month I was too embarrassed to ask him his name lol. Not saying that’s what is happening with your lady, for all you know you can be one of many men as she plays the field. I do think it’s disrespectful though not to make the effort to know your name as another date approaches.

[Asker]

She also gave me a fake name when we first met. She try to justify not knowing my name because I didn’t know hers. I have a good memory so I know what she told me. I think she is just looking for attention at this point

[Opinion Owner]

Trust your gut with this. It’s still early in and your feelings aren’t in the way, so if you believe that is her nature then wash your hands of her before you get deeper into things.

[Nikki1989]

Well, that is not a good sign.