Could you date a smoker?

[Anonymous]

For the people who do not smoke, could you date someone who vapes and smokes weed? Smokes weed on a constant basis

[Finchie40]

Yes , because I enjoy smoking as well , I know it’s considered a bad habit , but is it really that bad? Cuz I feel relaxed and comfortable when I am smoking , So My question is , what is actually good for us as people? We are all going to die of something , I use To be against smoking until I realized fuck it , just live your life , I know people that exercised daily , watched what they ate , took vitamins and supplements every day and they still dropped dead at a young age , so I am so in between what is actually good or bad for us , so I just live my life the happiest I can , I love drinking beer as well I just don’t over indulge myself and can pretty much control myself , I enjoy eating tasty foods like pizza and cheesesteaks as well etc. And I enjoy fruits and vegetables as well ,
I just don’t limit myself to what I can and
Can not eat , variety to me is better than just sticking to one thing , the only one thing I will stick with is a girl that is sticking with me , other than that fuck it , Do what makes you happy, fuck what other people say , most people are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to pointing fingers at others , start pointing fingers at yourself first before you try to act like your shit doesn’t stink , cuz I got news for you all our shit stinks , surround yourself with people that enjoy the things you like to do and block out the ones that don’t , they mean nothing

[Anonymous]

I quit THC for good a few months ago and I don’t plan to do it ever again. I need my brain working at 100% capacity if I want to make something really happen in my life. I also rarely consume alcohol.

On one end I won’t be the kettle that called the pot black when it comes to weed. Not going to judge people who do it. But I also can’t have that negative temptation around me.

Don’t get me wrong. I used to love edibles especially for sexual activity. No hangovers either. I did have a very memorable dark magic tryst a few years ago with a young and beautiful girl (she was a popular IG model) who happened to live in my apartment building. I didn’t think she would go for me but after a conversation at a Halloween party she did. Was one of the best lays I’ve ever had. And it unfortunately set a precedent in my mind to always keep edibles around “just in case”.

But I’ve moved on from that. Life is finite and I want to make the most of what I have left. I’ve already noticed a big improvement in my cognitive function.

[Exterminatore]

Yeah bro. Weed messes up your thinking and clouds you mind. It makes you eat and lazy.

I quit it a while ago too. Good for you man. I like my brain unclouded.

[Opinion Owner]

@Exterminatore if hasn’t been easy. I actually had a much worse vice (gambling) that I quit 18 months ago. But getting over that motivated me to quit other things. Porn will be next (already watching much less).

[Exterminatore]

Good for you man. Keep it up!

[Opinion Owner]

@Exterminatore it’s hasn’t been easy. Fewer and fewer escapes nowadays.

[Exterminatore]

Yeah but your gonna be a better man for it.

Have you ever considered Jesus?

[Opinion Owner]

@Exterminatore I‘ve been a wayward Christian for a better part of my life. That’s another story. At least I can say I clearing up more upstairs.

But I feel a lot of shame for some of my past major hypocrisies. I remember an ex girlfriend call me out on it. I once did hard drugs in front of her. She wasn’t even Christian herself but what she said was accurate. In fact it was even worse coming from a non-Christian.

But I do recognize it as the way.

[Exterminatore]

Maybe you could get reacquainted with your faith. I’ve been where you are. I used to smoke weed constantly. Every single day. I also used to watch a lot of porn when I was a lot younger. Neither are good.

I’m convinced weed in particular causes lapses in judgment. If you use a lot of it, even when your aren’t high I think it clouds your mind.

I think all this stuff negatively effects people right down to their soul but most people don’t realize it.

I mention Jesus because that’s what helped me through all of it. Focusing on not offending him with my sin and understanding the seriousness of it.

[Opinion Owner]

@Exterminatore i did not do THC every day or all the time. But it really was a tigger for porn. Porn is something I’ve wanted to quit for years. It really has detrimentally impacted my interactions with women and relationships.

So far so good though. But it hasn’t been easy.

[Hawkes_Lady]

As a previous pack-in-a-half to 2-pack-a-day smoker for 23 years, hell no, I would not date a smoker/vaper. It is a horrible and unhealthy addiction that is very hard to give up. It smells horrible and it doesn't matter how well you shower the stink doesn't come off. It ruins your teeth.

I have never smoked or done weed, so I don't know. Honestly, though, I really don't think that weed is that bad. It's not addictive and can be used in a medicinal manner. That being said, I don't mind you smoking it but not inside my home.

[Hawkes_Lady]

Thanks for the MHO!

[DizzyDesii]

Weed is an automatic dealbreaker. I used to think i could tolerate a vaper but those mfs show they’re just as addicted to the tobacco or nicotine or whatever tf is in it. So no

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I think also

[MrOracle]

Smoking anything is a deal breaker for me.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I hate the smell of cigarettes.

[m1tch3ll]

i vape and smoke (only smoke weed on an every-now-and-then basis) i am gonna quit vaping soon (im not one of those idiots that says it and never does, its all a mentality thing, i legit stopped for a good 5 months cause my friends didn’t believe me, only picked it back up cause why not im still a kid 🤷‍♂️) i wouldn't even say im gonna quit weed cause thats more of a get high with my mates on their bday then forget it exists until another ones bday thing. addictions are so stupid in my opinion. its the easiest thing to just stop, if i date someone who “cant” stop yet complains about not being able to achieve goals or is a hardcore smoker than id probs back away, if theyre like me then idrc, we just gotta stop it all together cause its such a quick one way route to both succeeding at a fast asf pace, both of us pulling eachother up to be better causes the easiest bit of momentum that makes life a piece of cake.

[DannyUk2017]

Normal smoking i'm ok with it, Any other type of smoking? No way, as it can lead to many things, like... she will lose all her money on weed, then after i have to support the Habit, Lose her clear mind and start doing things that some of them could be "greater" beyond repair...🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Don't you lose money regardless if it's normal or weed though?

[DannyUk2017]

Losing money yes, Losing morality, dignity, gathering stupidity and regret for actions that can have life changes consequences? No Thanks!

[Kaneki05]

Bruh needs some weed to realise weed does not make you addicted. And that weed is healthier than your average cig.

[DannyUk2017]

@Kaneki05 i'm good Thanks.

[Lisia]

Vaping bothers me less than smoking tobacco. Weed.. well some people need to do it for their depression or other mental illnesses although I do hate the smell. So I wouldn't date a tobacco smoker but preferably someone who just doesn't smoke in general.

[Miristheiss]

Hypothetically? If she was really hot I could hypothetically have hung out with her some.

Unless she quit smoking though it is never going to go anywhere or get serious. I've never dated one to be honest. Can they brush their teeth and use mouthwash and actually have nice breath? Do they taste like smoke 24/7? That is gross if they do.

[Kaneki05]

I don't think it been a constant thing is good. But I do vape myself, and have smoked a cig or two sometimes and have tried weed and would again.
Vaping is the only thing I do regularly though what I do just varies. It's never a constant thing.

[Kaneki05]

Oh yeah forgot to say so yes I would. But I would bit put off by it's constant nature.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Depends on how heavy of a smoker they are. If they smoke too much, l may as well be licking an ashtray.


I will say this, seeing a woman smoking a Marlboro Red, really revs my motor.

[RingOfFire]

No. Aside from it being disgusting it tells me they don't care about their health. Both cause extremely bad health issues. All my friends who smoked weed when we were younger have major health issues now and fried brains. It's a very dangerous drug.

[worldscolide]

Oh hell no. I see smokers no matter how hot they are as the following image.

[genericname85]

could yes. would no. i think it's very important for ones own psyche to draw a very clear line between ability and desire. once you start confusing "can" with "want", you'll start drawing artificial boundaries in your life that feel hard to overcome even tho they aren't.

[Unit1]

Hell no. I do not want to jeopardize my health to living hazards. My body is my precious temple.

[Tiishyy]

Obviously not, no smoking cigarettes, weed and vapes 👎🏾

[LavLavLuv]

[caitycat21]

If they did it occasionally I wouldn’t mind but I wouldn’t want them doing it in my house cause the smell of weed gets everywhere and stains furniture

[Kaneki05]

Fairest comment here.

[Asker]

I think the same, but this guy does it on a constant basis so it's a turn off

[Simslover92]

No I couldn't. I could date someone who occasionally vapes or smokes weed but that's about it.

[Singing_Hollow]

I dated smokers in the past and now that I'm with someone who doesn't smoke its way better. Smoking destroys one's teeth and makes their breath smell so bad. Vaping is better and I can accept that.

[stratford]

Kissing a girl who smokes is a big turn off. Like kissing someone with terrible breath.

[slatyb]

I would not. I've watched two people die from lung cancer and have no desire to see it again. Besides it's literally filthy. Smoke in your car? Now it's unsalable.

[exitseven]

I dated girls that smoked but it was a long time ago and it was a lot more popular. Vapes were not even invented. I only dated one girl that smoked weed and she was crazy and was bipolar or something.