What are the potential outcomes or dynamics involved when considering a non-monogamous relationship with my girlfriend that includes another man?

[ardent]

I'm curious about how such a relationship might work and how it could impact the emotional connections and dynamics among all parties involved. Is make sense share girl friend another guy?

[VanityFair888]

I'm in an open marriage and tbh I think that the dynamics entirely depends on what type of person you are.

I've never felt jealous of my husband, on contrary, he's been jealous and in such cases I used to ghost the person he was jealous about or we would "close" the relationship for some time until he'd process and said he was okay with "reopening". We both agreed that other people are for just sex though and being in a romantic loving relationship with any other person would be a dealbreaker for us both. But we both don't catch feelings easily so I guess it's okay with us.

But if you're a type of person who considers such relationship as "sharing" your SO with other person, then it's probably not for you. I believe that in order to have a healthy polygamous/polyamorous relationship you need to aknowledge that other person can never become yours and even if your relationship is strictly monogamous, there will be moments when you both feel sexually and romantically attracted to another person and that is totally okay.

[blunty]

When considering a non-monogamous relationship that includes another man while you are in a relationship with your girlfriend, several potential outcomes and dynamics come into play. Firstly, open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss your desires, boundaries, and expectations with your girlfriend and the other man involved.

Potential outcomes may include increased emotional and sexual fulfillment for all parties if boundaries are respected and communication remains transparent. It can also lead to challenges, such as jealousy, insecurity, and the need for extensive time management and emotional support. Trust and consent are paramount, and maintaining the core relationship with your girlfriend should be a priority.

So, I believe, societal norms and potential stigma may affect your relationship dynamics. Navigating these dynamics requires maturity, emotional intelligence, and mutual respect. It's essential to continuously reassess the arrangement to ensure everyone's needs and feelings are considered. In summary, a non-monogamous relationship involving another man can be rewarding but also complex, demanding careful communication, trust, and empathy to succeed.

[Miristheiss]

It shows you two really do not love each other because no man or woman who are totally in love would share their mate or could stand the thought of their mate with someone else.

Your relationship will end. They all fall apart. Most will fall apart right away. Some can maintain a few years and they'll preach how it "works for them" and others who want to whore around like this will point to them as examples saying "it can spice up their sex life", "some couples this works for" but they all fall apart.

You'll ruin your relationship. Enjoy the thoughts of some guy finishing in her mouth (that you get to kiss), some guys enjoying her butt naked and caressing from head to toe and kissing and sucking on her, him feeling her everywhere, and her feeling him, their passionate kisses, him climaxing in her.

Maybe you even plan on watching it.

Enjoy.

[Tim2nice]

You’re so wrong. Only people in deep love can share

[EmyyWolf]

You sound sexist af like all your posts and responses. You undesirable fuck

First of all. All men watch porn all the time.
They all literally enjoy watching a woman get fucked by another guy. So your entire argument falls apart with that alone. 😆

[OlderAndWiser]

You don't think you deserve to have a girlfriend promise you monogamy? If you don't respect yourself, why should she?

[miadee]

I agree 👏🏻

[spice]

When considering a non-monogamous relationship that includes another man with your girlfriend, several potential outcomes and dynamics come into play:

Non-monogamous relationships often require more open and honest communication to establish boundaries, expectations, and emotional safety for all parties involved. It's common for jealousy and insecurity to surface, even in consensually non-monogamous relationships. Effective communication and emotional support are essential to address these feelings constructively.

The dynamics between you, your girlfriend, and the other man may vary. Each relationship may have different levels of emotional and physical intimacy, which can lead to complex emotions. Balancing multiple relationships requires careful time management and consideration for each partner's needs and schedules. Practicing safe sex and regular STI testing is crucial to protect the health of all involved parties.

Assess whether this relationship structure aligns with your long-term goals and values. Non-monogamous arrangements can work for some but may not be suitable for everyone. Be aware of the legal and social implications of non-monogamy in your jurisdiction and among your social circle.

So, as I believe, the success of a non-monogamous relationship with another man depends on the willingness of all parties to communicate openly, manage emotions, and adapt to the unique dynamics that arise. It can be a fulfilling experience when approached with care and consent from all involved.

[Anonymous]

That she’ll catch feelings for him.
That she’ll leave you for him.
That she gets pregnant by him.
That she gets pregnant and don’t know if it’s yours or his.
That she gets a std.
That she gives you a std that she got from him.
That you’ll feel jealous.
That you’ll see the two of them together in your head and not be able to ger over it.
That’ll you’ll wonder if he’s better than you in bed.
That’ll you’ll worry he’s bigger than you.
That you’ll obsess over if she’s with him at the moment or not.
That you’ll analyze ever little thing to try and figure out if it’s because of him.
That you’ll loose feelings for her.


Even if you all use contraception they can fail and result in std or pregnancy anyway.
Even if she doesn’t want kids, she could change her mind when pregnant.
Even if you and her stay together if she has his child you’ll have to explain to everyone, including the child, that that kid ks a result of her fucking another dude because of your non-monogamous relationship.
If you try to hide the fact he is the father then the truth will likely come out sooner or later especislly with dna-tests being so common to even do for fun nlw with 23andme etc and then the child will feel hurt, betrayed and hate you for having made their whole life a lie.

[exitseven]

too bad you are anon. This is a really good answer.

[Anonymous]

Most men enjoy watching porn. Another man screwing an attractive woman they themselves aren’t allowed to screw.

You literally would be doing the same as every single man alive right now.
The only reason men don’t want to share in real life. It’s because they’re entitled and sexist. But deep down they do want to share.

It’s like a hidden secret of every single guy. They want to screw every attractive girl. They’d even share the attractive girl. They just won’t express it out loud or admit it. Ego is too big. Entitlement is too big. Sexism is too big.

But no, you literally wouldn’t be doing any different than the average guy who consumes porn. If anything you have the privilege to get ass in real life, in the flesh.

[Opinion Owner]

@ardent

[Lara_Croft]

God is Good. Don't do it, if she is the one-marry her under God. Don't consider what you're trying to do, it's not worth it stop treating relationships like transactions and people like commodities. in the end you know that someone will have to part ways if you take that root

[love_conquers_lust]

Complications. You pretty much don’t have a girlfriend. You have a friend with benefits and she has two, that you know of. Be honest about what you are and own it. Trying to redefine what a girlfriend means makes people trying to do it right mad.

[RingOfFire]

"Is make sense share girl friend another guy?"

You are 33 years old and asking if it makes sense for you to share your girlfriend with another guy?

If you don't know the answer to that your relationship is doomed anyway so I don't see any hope for it.

[DextroShade]

This is cuckoldry and is completely unacceptable. 99% of the time it's a pathetic simp guy who agrees to this because he lacks any other options. These typically don't work out because the kind of people that would go for this are broken and unstable.

[Tim2nice]

It could enhance your relationship if you’re open minded or destroy it if you’re close minded and jealous.

[Billlewis]

One of the best outcomes is for her to meet a guy who's much better in bed than you are, but for her to love you more than ever for encouraging her to date other guys.

[TomMarks]

Possible losing her completely to the other guy.

[WhitneySnow]

Will you get jealous?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Why would you even tolerate that? 🤨

[JamesRandiDebates]

Just admit that you are a cuck.

[RedInnocent68]

Like a chart?