I’ve dated this Dutch man 2 times. The first two times we went to a bar and played pool ( and drinks), and I appreciated he offered to pay.
What kind of annoys me is he never really planned a date for us. He always started planning at the last minute. And when I mentioned ‘I’ll be really happy and feel cared if he can initiate and plan our next date before we meet.’
He replied ‘ Hahaha how about you plan one and pay the next one xD 😂’
I’m not sure what I should think of this. I don’t mind contribute, but this is the first time that a guy directly asked me to plan our date and pay for the next one.
What’s your thought on this? Does that mean he’s not that into me?
Thanks