Okay, so it was the third date. First date just had drinks (cheap) and he paid. Second date went for coffee and snack, and I offered but he insisted to pay ( was just a beach side cafe).
Third date he asked me out to this fancy restaurant, had a proper Sunday brunch. When bill arrives he says "hey do you mind getting this one? its your turn"
I was a bit shocked as the amount was way more than both the previous dates, I didn't mind splitting it but he just asked me to pay the whole amount for both our meals!
May be he planned to spend for the next meal but we are still dating and he was the one who asked me out for this meal. Should I be mad?
Most Helpful Guy
Splitting the bill from the first date seems a lot easier for both parties.9
Most Helpful Girl
this is why splitting just makes more sense. i dot think you paying is weird esp since he paid twice but since he paid you had no idea hed ask you so you might've chosen a cheaper place. i dont even do restaurants as dates. its just spendsig a bunxh of mioney on food hat i can just buy something from a supermarket and i don't like eating while getting to know someone. crazy in my opinion to go to an expensive place when you're not even celebrating. you're still getting to know each other so ANYTHING should be exciting. no need for frills to get thrills.
anyhow just suggest splitting next time and the next etc. thats what id do.
how much was it by the way. did it equal more than the two dates he paid for?2