If a guy asks for the money back he spent on our date because I changed my mind about him is this reasonable?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

[Lliam]

Wow. That guy has to be the king of losers. Let him cry to his mommy. Maybe she'll buy him an ice cream and a cookie to make him feel better.

[Billlewis]

If he was a gentleman, he'd offer to pay for your upcoming dates with the other guys whom you're preparing to meet.

[HelpfulWoman]

it shows you indeed were right to change your mind. I'd just pay and forget about him.

[Flatmanlewis]

No. He chose to pay. He has no guarantee that a date will lead to something further. If he was concerned about the money then he should’ve laid that out up front. He’s just being petty and bitter.

[Hanrej]

No, he too must learn that dating is a gamble. Every guy goes through it and eventually every guy learns to be more pickup about who to ask out.

[motownplayer2000]

Yes, he invested time and money into you.. If you bought some shoes and you didn’t like the shoes, and had the opportunity to take it back and get money back for it.. wouldn’t you. Or would you just keep the shoes you hate because you “paid for it.”

[AviatorTom]

It's reasonable for you to give him what he spent on you, but not the entire cost of the date.

[BoobMan]

Wow Bekaaaaaaaahhhhh! I'm impressed by your ability to consistently source these high quality dudes!

[DryGermanGuy]

I am wondering the same. What planet do they come from, Uranus? 😬

[TheSpaceGnome]

Reasonable would be both of you paying for your half whether it worked out or not.

[BLP11520]

No it is not at all. Did some guy actually do this?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Yes he’s very upset that I don’t think I have to give it back, he spent it voluntarily he knew there was a risk we wouldn’t get along

[BLP11520]

He does not have a leg to stand on in this situation.

[BLP11520]

You will find someone better!

[Twalli]

Unless he paid abs then you backed out without showing up it's unreasonable.

[nawtee_me]

Did he ask you out? If he did then he pays for the date.

[Fuentes]

That's your choice but he already paid transaction is final.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope it's not resealable and I wouldn't give him back shit. What did you change your mind about

[slatyb]

No, it's not. What a sad little boy.

[OlderAndWiser]

What's the rest of the story?

[exitseven]

No, that is a definite dick move.

[TallAnon]

Nah, he's intentionally being a prick

[elizamichale1]

ofcourse it is not

[LostA__Aryen18]

You should probably go half on first date anyways

[Billlewis]

@LostA__Aryen18 I respectfully disagree. I'm a firm believer that the guy should always pay for everything that is in any way related to the cost of the date itself, and I've even gone as far as requesting that whether she decides to go on a second date with me or not, that she grant me the privilege of paying for one or two of heir dates with the other prospective male lovers with whom she plans to meet.

[Solo3k]

Perfectly reasonable

[EstevanMadrid898]

That is the dumbest thing a guy would ask for

[jahaims]

No lol. Ignore him

[dudeinohio]

No it is not.

[shortster]

Not really

[eagle1951]

no it's not