Guy asked me to pay him back 3 months later?

[Anonymous]

I borrowed $40 bucks from a dude that liked me about 3 months ago and I paid him back 3 months ago. He recently messaged me and asked me when I was having my baby so we can “hang out.” I told him I’m not interested in dating or having sex in the future. He then begin to tell me I owe him money from 3 months ago. I was taken back and sent his a receipt of my paying him back. He then proceeded to tell me I owe him $24 more dollars and if I don’t pay him now he will show up to my house and cause a problem. I informed him that the police will be notified and if he showed up to my house unannounced causing drama. I double checked my cash app and only borrowed $40 which I paid to him. Why would he bring this up 3 months later? Is it because I rejected him?

[itsannalee]

If you said you burrow it to him, you should pay it back. No matter what, just pay.


Personally my husband even pay and cover everything for my basic needs, foods, any bills. Even though i still have financially freedom, when he asked BORROW he should pay it back.
It would different story if he ask me to help him.



A word means a lot.

[jazzy34]

She *did* pay him back. She even showed him proof. Despite that, he’s saying she still owes him. He’s now threatening to come to her house and “cause a problem.”

[itsannalee]

And he asked again, so just pay it.
Don’t make someone look down on you just because $40.
If it was me, I’d pay him $100 just to buy his dignity.

[jazzy34]

No. Just no. That’s stupid. I’m not going to keep paying someone when I’ve already paid them back, ESPECIALLY after I’ve shown them proof. Who gives a damn about his “dignity?” What are you even talking about? This guy is gaslighting her. As I told her, it’s probably time for her to get a restraining order against him. At any rate, that’s all I have to say. Goodnight.

[itsannalee]

Anything works for you, that ain’t my problem tho.

[Asker]

@itsannalee your reading compréhension skills are not so great.

[jazzy34]

It’s possible. Consider getting a restraining order. He sounds crazy.

[Anonymous]

Yes it is. But the real question is did you burrow $24 dollars from him? I ask because you said why would he bring this up 3 months later. So to me that indicates that you did burrow $24 from him. What’a this situationship w this dude? Sounds like you dated him at one time, even slept w him. Is he the father of your baby?

[Asker]

He is not the father of my baby. I believe I already paid him back 3 months ago and I sent him a receipt on cash app but he says I owe him more.

[Asker]

I just think if he had a problem he should of told me 3 months ago when it was fresh in my mind not now when I’m not 100% sure and had to go back track and find a receipt.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so either one of you could be wrong since you “believe” you paid him. We’ll either send him $24 in hopes that he stops or don’t then see where it goes. Hopefully he doesn’t show up but too if he’s crazy him showing up once may turn out to be really bad if he hurts you or does worse.

[Asker]

Hurting a pregnant woman of over is $24 you think she owes you is crazy.

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t think that. Telling me that isn’t going to change your situation. I just said what I thought so make a decision.

[RavVid]

I am not that precious about money so I wouldn't bother but some people are more precious.

Is he the father of your baby or another guy?

[Asker]

Another guy

[RavVid]

It was ambiguous. Knocking you up and asking you for $24 back would be a bit rude.

[slatyb]

No idea, but threatening to "cause a problem" could be construed as a terroristic threat. Block him.

[Anonymous]

60% interest, guy thinks he's some Mafia vigster

Should some him the other half, blow off one of his kneecaps

[Jmmmfi4]

Probably & i don't blame him

[BruceWayne32123]

What a loser