How to quench a desire to love and care for a girl?

[Avcfhcic]

I've never had any luck with woman, no dates, no flings, nothing (I'm nearly 23, not 28).
But I have such an urge and desire to just flood someone with all the love and care I have bottled up over years and I don't know how to help it. I just want to treat a girl right and make her feel loved and safe.
Outside of trying to find someone (because that's a whole different can of worms), how can I help these urges and desires?

[Minahh]

I want a man to take care of me and take care of him. It's okay to have that desire. We just need to wait for that special someone ig.

[Avcfhcic]

I just want to invest my time into someone rather than waste it alone. Would love to come home to someone who I could just cuddle up with and love

[Minahh]

Yeah fr. I'd just advise you to know yourself well before that. Boundaries, values etc. Because I craved that love and care so much that I invested time into someone who didn't deserve it and forgot about myself and my own needs.

[Avcfhcic]

Yeah that's what I'm worried about, my desire blinding my judgement. I know I'm not the best looking guy, I do have a potentially good career and a good heart, I just want someone to share it with

[Billlewis]

I'm the same way myself, and although that approach generally doesn't result in getting any pussy, it's very rewarding and fulfilling nonetheless.

[captain_voidwalker]

Just hold out for 10 more years it will naturally subside in your mid 30's.
Barring that just do what I did and work yourself half to death in you 20's. You won't have the time or energy for women if you do that.

[Avcfhcic]

I work 50+ hours a week. I just want to come home to someone and invest spare time into them

[captain_voidwalker]

Up that to 80 ot 90 hours per week like I did