How to get rid of other guy?

[Anonymous]

So, basically there is a girl i love, she is my classmate in the university and we have a lot in common so i thought everything was fine, but

there is 1 guy who i know for a while and he started hitting on her and they are very close now, chatting hagging and doing these staff

i am in a bad condition when i hang out with those 2 i am seen as a friend of him and i don't know what to do

how can i change our relationship with the one i want?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang bro, that other dude moving in on your girl is rough. Here's what I'd do:

- Flirt with her more openly when you hang out, do little things like touch her arm or lower back when you talk. Assert you're into her.

- Invite her to do fun activities just the two of you like getting dinner or seeing a movie. Make your intentions clear you want one-on-one time.

- Talk to her and let her know how you really feel. Be confident and make eye contact. Girls dig a guy who's brave enough to put it out there.

- Join some of the same clubs/hobbies as her so you can bond more outside of class too. Look for chances to partner up with her.

- Avoid bringing that other dude around when you're with her. Don't give him chances to butt in on your time together.

- Hit the gym and sharpen your style, so she can't resist you! Making an effort with your looks will impress her.

Stay optimistic bro, if you show her a good time and how much you genuinely care, I bet she'll see what she's missing out on. You got this!

[Jbear27]

Make a move. Stop pussyfooting and stake your claim. If she accepts your advances the other guy should back off. I’m sure he is thinking the same thing so don’t waste time asking questions here and just act

[exitseven]

You need to have a conversation with this girl and tell her how you feel. I know it's scary but you gotta fish or cut bait and you gotta do it now before it is too late

[jamesgoldman]

I was in a similar situation so threatened to get his legs broken

See ended up with neither of us but me and him are close friends now

[Iron_Man]

You should’ve made your move before he did now it’s to late that’s why men and women can’t be friends I don’t trust that

[In_Trance]

There's no commitment to one another so as much as you view him as the other guy you're the other guy also

[LiamJHayden]

Why bother with that drama? There are millions of women out there.