How to get rid of him?

[Anonymous]

So around last year I slept with someone for the first time and I thought he was the right person but as we progressed I felt all he wanted was sex from me since we never really went out or did anything except for fuck. He would get mad at me and ignore me then he would make me have sex with him so we would make up. I started ignoring and started seeing this other guy but he won't stop calling my phone showing up at my workplace snd calling me to have sex with him. I haven't told the other guy about the fact that he still bugs me. Should i get a restraining order so he leaves me alone? Remind you this guy us 30 years older than me and he has a lot of connections.

[ShiftingMonke]

Wow. Plot twist at the end.

Block him on all platforms, and document his actions. If you already have it on record that you've told him to stop, I would start the process of a restraining order.

I cannot stress enough this point: do not engage. I repeat,DO NOT ENGAGE with him.

Don't answer his calls.

Don't respond to any messages.

Don't meet or speak to him.

There is no reason for you to engage with him if you file an RO; the sanctity of that decree hinges in your ability to prove that he is violating your privacy and safety; if you continue talking to him FOR ANY REASON the judge will throw it out, saying it's a civil matter.

If and when is approved, you must continue to avoid engaging with him. If you do begin talking to him again, the RO is null and void. It cannot be renewed either you'll need a new court date.

So for now, gather evidence and look into the filing process. Also, don't fuck men old enough to be your father. I don't know why it needs to be said, but just don't.

Good luck and godspeed.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Tell him he makes you sick, and you are ready to move on with a new life.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thank you for MHO :-)

[Emanon25]

Tell him straight that you don’t like to keep it up with him.