Girls, what girls look for in a partner?

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SotiCoto · Accepted Answer

Any vagina-haver who claims to mate-select on the grounds of "kindness" is talking shit. 100% talking shit. What they want is a guy who can be a guard-dog, step-ladder, jar-opener, tow-truck and dildo all in one... but failing that, they'll settle for any random arsehole as long as he is self-assured enough. I guess they might start looking for "kindness" by the time they're a single mother to 3 kids (donated by random arseholes), but by that point kindness is the only thing that will have them.

Source: Being pseudo-arrogant and selfish worked for me.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Confidence above all else. Of course all women want a good man. But most women have NO IDEA what a good man looks like. So those women latch onto guys that project supreme confidence. He can be complete Munson. But as long as he looks and acts the part, she fall for it.

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

I put kindness since that was the trait most of my partners had in common followed by intelligence and supportiveness. I have a type lol. I like that my current partner is masculine but he is also kind, intelligent, supportive, and confident (without being overly so). He has all the traits listed tbh. Kindness is important to me but it can’t be the only good trait he has going for him. I want someone that I am able to rely on.

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

Nothing better than a masculine man who is kind and loving. I believe more men should realise that women want some traditionally feminine qualities in their partners. In fact it shouldn't be considered an "alpha trait" to be aggressive.

EmmaMary · Answer

All of the above... However, I have plumped for confidence as that shows the possible makings of a successful relationship.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

A smart guy is a rare treat :/ If he has a brain and knows how to use it, we can solve a lot of other issues.

Angxl3120 · Answer

Should be supportive, takes a lot of courage to take hard decisions and fo through it together

Samantha36 · Answer

Sounds shallow but mine has always been performance in bed

Akothee005 · Answer

I'd prefer a man whose kind and not only to me but also to other people

Anonymous · Answer

hm. i chose intelligence. i can't stand a guy who doesn't know much of how things work. it's frustrating and i don't want to have to act like their mother.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

all of the above? you don't got to only pick one XD

NathanDavis · Answer

all of that and a bit more... as everyone should

Guido · Answer

Cannot select just one of those. I believe that it's confidence that gets her attention initially but it's the other factors that are important for the relationship to succeed.

Jennz6 · Answer

To be kind to me

Maddy2002_ · Answer

Kindess and a good sense of humor.

helva · Answer

All of this.

Awantika03 · Answer

All things

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

All of the above.

Anonymous · Answer

What do you mean by kindness 🧐?

Anonymous · Answer

protection.

Anonymous · Answer

All things I would say.

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